i want to know but.....

[camocutie]

Ok so we are suopsed to find out on the 25 of June what we are having and my husband told me the other day he don't want to k.own what it is. But I want to know is it wrong for me to find out and not him?

[camocutie]

Thank u for all yalls advice

[Spiket77]

We didn't find out with my son. My husband originally wanted to know but he changed his mind about that. It was actually a BIG motivator when it came time to push.

I know some couples where one partner knew and the other didn't. It becomes kind of a cute game of keeping it a secret :) I think that could be fun if he was willing to let you know. But...like others said you would have to stick with neutral things for now. I like having mostly neutral newborn things because the next time around...i want have to worry about it. Another fun thing he might be into is having the sex written down and put into a sealed envelope and you could open it at a later time when you both can't stand it anymore! My buddy just did that with his wife. They went back to where they were married, re-said their vows to one another and opened the envelope.

Best Wishes!

[Majikat]

ya my friend his girlfrend found out and he had no idea the entire time lol

i think you should do what you want

[lilkk125]

it depends... ask him if its Okay if you go to the appointment and find out what your having and just dont tell him.. but theres one problem you cant go clothes shopping with him.