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I ler him meet with guys he dosent even ask anyway but now when I only have 30 days left I still have to do everything by my self cook,clean and get everything ready for our little boy!! Hes not helping me with enything much we live together but I hsve to do everthing by my self even when I have pains I tell him all the time he says yed but tgen it never happen even after work hr takes ages to get home or hes with him stupid friend that always asks him too drink with him !! Im just hoping when tge babys born he will help me with styff otherwise ill hsve too seriously think !!
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I think you need to have a talk with him and tell him how you feel. He should be there for you and the baby.
My husband goes out with his friends but he asks me every time and before he goes he asks if i need anything first.  
He also has been buying stuff for the baby and helping me put things away and clean up.  I had a talk with mine saying i want everything ready and set up by december.
So slowly and surely we are getting there. I'm due early February.  
If your bf can't help you now, then I'm sure he won't help you when the baby is here. That's why this behavior needs to change now.  
Talk with him. Let him know how you feel. If you think he isn't listening to you, or he doesn't care, then leave him. Because you don't need to be there doing things on your own if you have a man. A man steps up, and helps you, and shows responsibility.  
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You Need To Sit Down And Talk To Him And Be Serious With His *** He's The Man Behind The Belly He's The One Who Suppose To Do Everything Looks Like Your With A Little Boy Not A Man
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