im pregnant and dealing with my husbands babymama drama!

[missladyof4]

My husbands baby mama is so rude and thinks he owes her the world. She's always asking for Money, always says rude things to me. Text me when she found out I was pregnant and said my pregnancy isnt going to Fix my void in my relationship. She dosent know anything about my relationship she just assume they dont work so we wont. Its not my business she wont file child support , but he takes care of his kids, anything they need he buys. This is are 4th kid together you think shes used to it by now. She thinks her kids get short end of the stick when in reality Its mine they get Hand me down, clothes, toys etc. In just done being nice. She threatened me when she found out about the pregnancy. She just wants control thats she hasent filed for child support so she can say when and where he can see his children. He never gets them any holidays. She is so spineless and  in tired of it. She got pregnant a year ago just because I have kids with him just to rub in his face she has people in and out of her place and uses her cars, but demands he pay for her gas and electricity. Last saturday I went out dancing with my husband before I get all huge, and she called me a bad mother. My husband said she did the same thing. Im sorry but I needed to vent. Anybody deals with this crap? Am i wrong for the way I feel?

[rebecca_sasser]

I would tell him to stop paying her anything so she can take him to court because the court is gonna look at what he makes and how many other kids he has with u chances are he mite end up paying her 50-100 a month......and he wont have to have any conversation with her besides about the kids......and i pray hes not paying her bills let jer get off her sorry a.. and pay her own bills i cant stand women that live off their ex money....that money is for the kids......

[myost8315]

If she takes him to court, they'll base his.support off of his hourly pay and include the fact y'all have 4 kids together. Let her run her mouth and be ignorant but don't stoop to her level

[Tay9662]

He should stop paying, so she will take him to court for child support and he will be able too see his kids, technically he doesn't have to give her a dime if she's not allowing him to see his kids make her take him to court it would be a whole lot better for you guys

[DominiqueN573]

You're not wrong for feeling that way at all Hun! It must be hard to deal with... maybe she should file for child support might be better... I understand where she wants him to help with the kids.. it is his responsibility if he is the father.. but he should be allowed to see them. Maybe he should send her to court? If he has to pay child support she might back off and stop the drama. That way she can't rub it in his face anymore that she hasn't filed for it..

[lolliepop1991]

Awww hun i'm sorry you're going through this. I havnt been in this situation myself but offer my sympathy & think maybe you should file for child support. So yes your hubby will get more rights :) xx