insensitive people

[autumnsexpecting]

Does anyone else live with or are around insensitive people? So I'm currently 35+4 weeks pregnant and I was talking to my grandma about how hard it is for me to work now that I'm so far along. Mind you I'm only 16 and my grandpa comes and says you need to stop being so lazy your gonna have to work for the rest of your life stop complaining. Like wtf I'm not gonna be pregnant for my whole life. He's such an *** sometimes. It has nothing to do with being lazy.

[autumnsexpecting]

I have been working before I was pregnant with no complaints. I've been doing things to earn my own money since I was 14. I'm about to pop. I'm not lazy. Just I'm physically drained with all this baby on me. So I have noidea what hes talking about. If I wasn't pregnant I would know where he's coming from

[Hmph16]

My boyfriend is very mean about it he keeps telling me to get a job and calls me lazy but men just don't understand what we're going thru! And I feel like your grandpa is saying that in a mean way because you are 16

[autumnsexpecting]

My boyfriend calls me lazy then I give him a dirty look and he's like oh babe I'm just kidding I love you.

[Its_a_girl19]

My brother keeps calling me fat and lazy

[autumnsexpecting]

I hate when men say anything about pregnancy its like you don't even know what its like to have a period let alone be pregnant don't give me your opinion.

[squidbabeh]

Ugh my boyfriend jokes around but he comes off so rude sometimes. He's like "why don't you get a job, pregnant women get jobs all the time, you're just lazy and spoiled" and I'm like... Keep talking and you die. It's the most obnoxious thing in the world, and I'm sure it's worse for you coming from someone who really means it. Don't you just want to be like "excuse me, have you ever grown a person before? Once you do that and feel the exhaustion then come at me with your rudeness"
I feel you on this one.

[annikins95]

I have a similar issue. I don't live with them but they have an opinion about everything i do. My hubby's dad went as far as telling my hubby before i got pregnant not to have kids with me because i will be an aggressive mother and abuse my children. And then about a month ago he said the same thing to my mother in law. And it's just getting to the point now where i don't even want to talk to his family. Because no one else believes this and it's just irratiting as He** he has never seen me around kids and honestly with what he has been saying he probably never will

[autumnsexpecting]

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