Help

[diamond8026]

I am a loving wife and mother to 5 children ranging in age from 9,8,5,2 and 1. So ,I think or shall I say I have a feeling that I am pregnant with my 6th child. I recently lost 22lbs going into the New Years trying to get my weight back from the last two babies...so I feel like my husband has been trying to get me pregnant on purpose so I would gain all my weight back and he can keep me be bare foot and pregnant.....so therefore no one else would look at me. My husband always claims that he wanted to have 2 more kids which is fine with me but I was cool with 5. I honestly didn't want anymore.... Now that I told him I may be pregnant he is saying that we can't afford anymore kids and this is ridiculous...what should I do??....I don't believe in abortions but should I get one??......my husband is giving me mixed signals one minute he wants more kids and the next minute he doesn't....WTH??? Please help I need advice..

[leedenru]

Birth Control??  Are you using any?
Abortion is not fair in a situation like this, and it kind of sounds like your DH is being a little selfish as well.  Best advice, have a serious conversation with him, have your baby (if you are indeed pregnant) and get a tubal or vasectomy so this doesn't happen again.

[mamaof4410]

I would say sit down and have a serious conversation with him. Ask him what does he REALLY want. And take a pregnancy test to see for sure. If you are not pregnant start using protection if you do not want anymore children. Best of luck to you and Congrats on the pounds lost.