Aa
irritated...
Nothing gets done around here unless I do it all by myself or I Ask for it to be done... so I pretty much went on strike... and it's disgusting. Trash, hasn't been taking out in two weeks. Litter box, same. Dishes. A week because I have in and need something to eat off of... I can't stand it.... I don't know what to do.
I feel the same but I live with my mother n law who has a 8 and 11 year old...so its hard n my bf works 12 hour shifts...n I get soo tired of cleaning n I would want my family n friends to come over but im embarrassed of the mess...our bedroom is mostly the only place to sit lol because I make sure I keep it clean...so idk what to do anymore either
I'm having the same problem. And I'm always really sick when I'm pregnant so I don't work. It also makes it hard to clean when I'm running to the bathroom to throw up every 10 mins. Yet my husband won't help clean and neither will my 9year old she thinks since dad don't help neither should she.
I was working 10hour days Monday-friday same as he was and i still.came hime to him in the game nether him or our son had baths i had to cook dinner bath our son clean the house and then by the time i was able to.shower he decided he wad ready to shower ugh and i would only clean the litter box time a week because i didnt want to.risk a miscarriage but he couldn't clean it but he can sure complain about smelling it... i am just so tired now and looking forward to Thursday when i.have my baby that way i can actually keep things clean because ill be off work for 3months because my last c-section took 4months to heal up so im not going to fuss about taking care of the house and 2 kids while im off because he will be the one working to keep our bills paid
I was having that problem we both work fulltime so I didn't think it was fair I was doing the dishes and cleaning eveettime but I just talked to him a few times when I would get frustrated and he's been a big help since:-)
I pretty much live alone, so I do it all. It's exhausting, doing all the chores. Having a 4 year old and working 10 -12 hours on my feet bartending. I can't go on strike, cause no-oneis here lol. boyfriend works out of state for 4-6 weeks.. but I can't complain too much bc when he is he, he don't let me do anything. He waits in me all day, does the cleaning. Only thing he doesn't do is laundry and that's B.C. I won't let him lol. I'm so exhausted though and can't wait for him to get to come home for a week in April!
Shooot. My man doesnt do anythinnnng altho he goes to college and works i work and clean everyday its just wat you do. I wouldnt fight over something so stupid he obviously doesnt mind the mess but you do so clean iy.Especially if you dont work you should be holding down the household regardless its just women instinct to NOT live in a mess. It gets old but that should be least of.your worries right now. You need a clean enviorment
Girlllll I'm with you on that... it wouldn't hurt for someone else to do chores besides me!! Lol I love/hate cleaning so I'll do it but it's just too much right now. My hubby plays his xbox for hours and it's so annoying! Gosh if men only knew what Little help around the house would be awesome.
I sit and play his xbox while the house was a mess. & let him get the idea.but then again I hate a dirty house, so I probably wouldve just cleaned it by now lol you guys should def have a sit down about chores around the house & who does what when before baby gets here.
I'm too sick to do anything but keep my kiddo happy. My husband has hand washed dishes twice, ran the dishwasher once (but never put any of these dishes away) and does his own laundry. He also cooked dinner last night although it's the second time he's done so in the four weeks we've known about the baby. I'm blessed that he even does that much.
Thats my fiance but i have a c-section scheduled for Thursday and dont want a dirty house when i bring our new baby home because ill need to rest up and cant do much lifting because lasr time i had a c-section it busted open because.i.did to much
I refuse to clean. Unless he's going to do something, I won't even lift a finger... all he cares about I'd his Xbox..
I know how you feel i tried to see how long it would take my fiance to.get off his game and help out but he didnt so today i.cleaned my butt off because i was just aggravated with the house being a mess
Omg literally im in the same position im literally crying put of frustration! As much as i love to live at home with my mom i cant stand my brother and sister theyre fukn pigss! :''''(
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