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is this possible?

can a 17 almost 18 yr old girl get pregnant from having sex with a 12 almost 13 year old boy?
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Look, this is why i dont get along with most women now. You walk around tryna make it seem cuz you went thru stuff or watever that u can talk down to me. and I how i talk is my business and she did not apologize but watever im done with that matter. and i dont speak bad to all adults. just ones who wanna act better than me, or wanna act like they can do and say watever they want to me cuz they are adults. I HATE adults like that yo cuz  we are younger dont mean u can talk down. and ive already said NO she shouldnt have done that but give her a break jeez. i mean the boy is our height and bigger than us. he pushes us up against walls attatches himself onto our bodies the minute we try and leave or run away! i mean this is very depressing to see that so many of u  women wanna blame us wen it was him that came to US! so far ive been able to get him away from me, but shes alot weaker and alot smaller than me! u dont kno how agressive this kid is! and yes it is very unfortunate. but as  i said no one in this room is GOD so therefore u aint got the right to pass judgement after i was only asking for help; and i only give respect to those who earn it and so far only a few women here have earned it. and i said nothing but the truth to that girl. if she goes arond judging other children than she needs 2 quit b4 her child turns out worse than those shes talking about! thats somthing everyone says around here 2 stop pregnant women from passing judgement about others. And if ur not over the age of 25 u have no right calling me sweetheart like im 5. and i dont care how young or immature i may sound! i am smart. i gets the honor roll AND ive been in the paper many times for winning SPEECH contests! and martin luther king oratorical contests, so say wat u want cuz i kno im smart, prolly smarter than most of the adults that wanna  keep their noses in the air. but if u think im insulting than im sorry and i will stop or ill try 2 b nicer if you do. as u can tell i do not respond well to those who wanna say rude comments or pass judgement on morals wen half of the pregnant women here aint even married yet! i mean that aint m business but think abo that b4 u wanna school teenagers in on a moral lesson......so for th way ive been talking i do apologize to the older women who have been reading this and responding, cuz it was not my intention to respond like this. but il b damned if anyone will talk or judge my best freind like that. i will take a bullet for her, ill kick *** for her, and standin up to someone who got their nose in the air is nothin. but im done insultin all i ask is that u keep u personal comments to ur self and we aint got no problems. cuz after all i never asked for personal opnions i asked for help not judgement. and as for u talking about ur 10 yr old son, no he cant talk 2 adults like i can cuz hes too young to realize wen theire treatin him wrong all cuz hes young. i use 2 b the same way until i grew up and watched how hypocritacal 90 percent of adults are! and i despise those who are no more than 5 yrs older than me and u wanna act like your just sooo good and u kno soo much. but im thru with that and i again i do apologize to those i have hurt cuz it was not my intention.
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320773 tn?1202772488
Good Lord, such language. I am not getting into this at all with what I think except that for being a 17yr old, having that kind of mouth and speaking to others about their unborn child makes you look and act younger than a 12 year old. My son just turned 10 and if he ever spoke that way to me, well, let me just say he would never speak to me like that, he knows better. This whole thing is just unfortunately very very very very very disgusting and wrong. If he is pushing her against walls and backing her into a corner, she should be mature enough to not only say no, but to also go and report it if he is forcing her. I hope that she isn't pregnant and I really hope that everyone involved can just not have anything to do with one another anymore.
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I agree with you wholely that she should not have given in.  Doing so only worsens the situation and gives the boy something to work off of.  So yes, I agree that they should put their foot down and exercise aggression in this case.

But what rnh3290 has been implying is that the boy's appearance is recurring and despite attempts, he has not backed off. Which is why I suggested talking to an authority figure to put their foot down, in case their attempts are not strong enough.

((I've already said things about her rnh's conduct in response to your last point.))
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327383 tn?1203977728
This was not a rape though. Believe me, I know from personal experiance that you can't "just say no" while being raped. But if a 12 year old boy is getting too fresh with you, that doesn't mean you have to have give in and have sex with him. If she felt threatened than she should say something to someone. But this young lady said she simply gave in. Not that she was raped. That would be a whole nother story.
And just because a young boy follows girls home from school doesn't mean they are being "stalked" Teenage boys can be pushy, it's not right, but maybe when girls like her friend "give in" and have sex with him, it probably makes him think if he keeps being pushy and forward, eventually other girls will give in too.


&& mh3290........How dare you say such awful things about someones unborn child. You may be young, but you still need to grow up a little because there is no excuse to be so cold and so stupid if you're in highschool. I learned common decency and simple respect when I was 5. Quit trying to have a battle of wits with these people. You are simply making yourself look horrible. Class.....It's something young woman should try to have.
Make it clear to this kid that you are not interested and to leave you alone or get someone to help you.
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327383 tn?1203977728
And sweetheart, you say you aren't a child and you are smart....but the way you talk makes you sound ignorant, and VERY much like a child. A severely disrespectful one at that. I am not much older than you, but I know how to carry myself with some intelligence and class. You are speaking to people much older and wiser than you. People who have dealt with much bigger issues then the ones you face at school. Show some respect.
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327383 tn?1203977728
And sweetheart, you say you aren't a child and you are smart....but the way you talk makes you sound ignorant, and VERY much like a child. A severely disrespectful one at that. I am not much older than you, but I know how to carry myself with some intelligence and class. You are speaking to people much older and wiser than you. People who have dealt with much bigger issues then the ones you face at school. Show some respect.
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