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its a girl

So I have a 10 month old son n im currently 5 months pregnant with my 3rd I found out it was a girl I have mixed feelings I wanted to cry.during the the ultrasound...my first born was a lil girl I lost her wen she was 6 months due to rsv n she had a copper deficiency which made her organs alot weaker so she couldn't fight the virus as well as healthy babies...so this baby brang back alot of feelings im getting use to it being a girl as time goes but its hard cuz all the memories from my daughter n what happen makes me feel scared even tho the chance of this baby girl having the deficiency is like 1 n a million.
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3198629 tn?1367038423
You just made me cry.. I'm so sorry for what has happened to you. But I don't think you should stress out (because I imagine this would cause you ALOT of stress). If I were you instead of thinking oh no, she's going to be sick.. I would be thinking of it as her coming back to you, you know? Again I'm really sorry and wish nothing but good health to you and your new daughter
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God has given you this second little girl as a blessing. I'm so sorry about the loss of your angel. I cannot imagine your pain and fustration. But you are giving your little boy a wonderful gift that's beyond words. Our son was 3 when our daughter was born and the relationship they have is amazing.g.  He's now 9 and she's 6 we also have a 4yr old son and a 21 month old son and were expecting our second little girl in August. My daughter is excited but my boys are so excited to have a little sister. Don't let your angel baby be a memory...keep her there with you and your family and always remember God works in mysterious ways and we can't question it or fight it. We have to work with what were given. God has blessed you with another gift. Your little girl an angel watching over you.
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