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marrital problems

Me and the hubby always fight now idk we only have ten weeks left till our daughter is here and I'm really scared we haven't had sex in two weeks I miss being touched in that way I feel so unattractive I need help and tmi but my hubby only takes five mins to poo literally but today he was in there for over 30 mins and I can't help but think he was jerking off  but I checked his phone nothing but if he was why wouldn't he come to me first to take care of it ya know then we got into a fight and he called me controlling and selfish but we live with my mom now so I'm trying to get him used to how she lives but he fights me on it I feel like I'm ruining his life what should I do? I'm scared once our daughter is here things will get worse
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Sex does not fix everything, so don't think that way. Remind yourself and your husband we you guys fell in love and are married. I know I am young, but I have been through the same thing with my husband. It takes time, and the problem will not get fixed overnight.
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I feel the same way. Just hoping its just me. We have a joy above all coming in 10 weeks. Keep ur head up. Thats the moat important part. I have a 6 and 7 yr old too. Its hard for me. But I keep thinking about my new son to be and focus on that to keep me up
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Should talk to one another without raise voices. Listen to each other without interrupting. Start doing nice random acts of kindness for your husband, and don't expect something in return. Show your husband that you appreciate him. Please believe your husband is going through the same stress, anxiety, pressure and every other that you are and sometimes there are even worse than you.  Hopefully things will get better.
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Its not my hormones mine is pulling away from me
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7792797 tn?1413503184
Hey girl. Funny I am married 8 yrs now and going thru the same thing. I have 10 weeks left as well and we have been arguing alot too. He usually takes quick as well lol and lately same thing-and I cant help to think about him cheating. I feel depressed and lately I miss his touch too. It's been a few days and the last time we did it-it felt so-unusual. I didnt feel loved or sexy or pretty. I been crying alot lately and thinking but im hoping it will get better and its just my hormones.  Keep ur head up
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Maybe y'all should go to dinner and talk in a calm state of mind... Or when y'all go to bed just give him head.. I'm sure he won't push you off.. Do the nasty and tell him you love him and talk from there.. Good luck
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