what to do,,, vent

[Zavionmom2013]

I'm 30w+1d I haven't slept or ate this weekend i'm 16 its only my mom left for the weekend and my brother,, when i'm home alone my anexity messes with me I cry wen i'm alone so this whole weekend I've been crying my mom is stranded in Delaware we live in dc the man who drove her isn't picking up :( I can't function without my mommy :( I can't stop crying I jump wen I hear a noise the baby keeps kicking I try and eat but it won't stay down I sound like a baby I know its Juss I been thru alot she has to I Juss want my mom nn brovaa home i'm sorry I Juss need to let it out

[Zavionmom2013]

Ohk

[KTowne]

When you take medication while pregnant, especially stuff like that, and stop cold turkey without talking to your doctor it's very dangerous, the baby can go through withdrawals and get stressed out as well.. you really need to tell your doctor you stopped taking them to make sure your baby doesn't get any side effects.

[Zavionmom2013]

No I Juss stopped taking them

[KTowne]

Did you talk to your doctor about stopping them? You can get major panic attacks and side effects from stopping that kind of medication cold turkey, and it should definitely be watched by your doctor (unless your doctor said to do it). It's not at all about being able to support yourself, just being independent emotionally. It's so much easier to leave home (whenever that happens) when you get an independent mindset emotionally, I was sad to leave the first few nights or so, to the point where I wanted to go back, but now that I'm out it's sooo much better, haha!

[Zavionmom2013]

I stopped seroquel nn Prozac it was for my mood and anexity I have bad panic attacks so my mom usually don't leave me alone for long but I told her I'll be Ohk because I want her kno i'm old enough :/ I feel like a baby but I ate nn stuff I will move out soon wen I have a job nn stuff

[KTowne]

And I also should ask what meds you stopped and why, and did your doctor approve you stopping them? You really need to control your medicine and any drastic change (enough to make them take this big of a toll on you) is bound to stress the baby out as well.

[KTowne]

I lived with my mom while pregnant (more for her than me, she really needed support at that time) and me and my husband decided to move out for the very first time about 2 weeks after I had my son (I was only 18), I've always been a mommy's girl, and we're very close, so moving out was hard, but in order for my son to have a stable home that he didn't think was with grandma, we did it. Your day is going to come, you can't live with your mother forever, so you really need to talk to someone about these fears and anxieties when she's gone. It's understandable that you miss her, but not being able to eat or sleep is a little overboard of missing someone, and like the other ladies said, you're going to be a mom soon so you have to learn to be more independent. Good luck hun!

[Zavionmom2013]

I live with my mom she is stranded that's why i'm sad,,,I ate something and took a small nap but nothing is helping

[mrsnelson2010]

I agree with her hun! Ur fixing to be a mom. Its understandable to miss ur mom. I live 6 hours from mine and only get to see her maybe 3x a year if that. Ive found that calling helps a lot. But it really is time to try to become independent. You were dependent on your mom as a child, and now you have a child depending on you. Its the cycle of life. Ull get used to it but it really is time to take that first step

[Nichole05]

Its gonna be ok try and calm down so you can eat your baby needs you to, having a baby will force you to become a woman at 16. Mommy will not take care of you always so you need to start being a mom to your unborn child  now because as much as you are depending on your mom your baby is depending on you as well, think about it!

[Zavionmom2013]

Ohk....i'm not use to being away from her like this I usually wouldn't cry nn all this,,,I stopped all my meds and its taken its toll i'm sorry :(

[Nichole05]

Sweety you are about to be a mom very soon so its time to grow up a become responsible for yourself, its nice to have your mommy around im sure but at some point she will not always be around so you have to prepare yourself for that time. Being a teen mom is hard but you need to be strong for your baby right now when you stress your baby feels it so you need to think about it right now