Aa
just want to cry
So iwork out in the heat and ididnt go to work today because ive been dizzy for hours already and now my bf is bitching me out saying ishouldve gone anyway when icant be Inside for my job I have to be outside . He said he didnt care if I passed out in the heat as long as I went he really doesnt think my body is feeling weird or anything he said that im making **** up but im not ive never been sickly or anything and now ive been feeling ****** now that im pregnant:/
How far along are you? And how long have you worked there? Could you maybe take your maternity leave? Because it doesnt sound like the type of place yiu should be working if youre pregnant
I heard the heat can make you go into preterm labor I honestly dont think you should be working outside at all he is being ****** up ! That's not right at all to be saying stuff like that to you
Yea he can be an *** it made me really mad that he was really getting mad the way he did because he never does and its hard for me to even go to get water or go to the restroom at work because iwork at a car wash as a cashier and im not allowed to leave the register of no one else is there and its rare for someone to be there since all the other ppl who work there are on the other side of the lot
Really thats kind of cute that he says hes jelous about that stuff haha. it ***** Itry to ignore it but sometimes iget too mad. But he is under stress but he shouldn't take it out on me but hopefully hes in a better mood after work..
Wtf? His priority should be u and babys safety. I worked in a HOT industrial bakery for both pregnancies make sure u take breaks whenever u can an drink TONS of water dont skip meals and do whatever u can to cool off. I used to take my bumpcap off everytime I was standing somewhere more than 2mins. Its dangerous to baby to get overheated (why hot tubs are a nono and fevers are very bad) plus all the extra blood in ur system doesnt help. If u have to work just take extra care of urself but ur bf sounds like an a**
My husband is actually jealous that he doesnt get to feel the baby move inside him and all the 'fun' pregnancy stuff. He also has bad days too, like yours it sounds like, its a thing a lot of dads go through apparently since theyre under stress as well with a baby on the way. It just ***** when they take it out on us
Iknow I told him off and he still is mad but idont care he has two jobs I honestly dont need to work he makes more then enough so idk why he is bitching about it because he is always saying idont need to work but today iguess he wants to be a **** for some reasonhe doesnt get that being prpregnant changes your body and everything I wish men could experience pregnancy
Even if its not how you were before its how you are when youre pregnant with his child which should be his main concern. If you pass out that could really harm your body affecting HIS child. If hes so worried about money maybe he should man up and get a second job. But he needs to realize your body isnt yours right now its your babies
What an *** hole I'd b word back at him...my boyfriend encourages me to no do anything that may hurt me or the baby he doesn't even let me Carry our son n if I'm laying down n need to get something he will get it for me
My bf was the same way I worked in a warehouse it was extremely hot, I stood on my feet for 10 hours a day, and everything I lifted was heavy. He expected me to still work but I didn't I choosed what was best for me and baby
Yes I quit, I hated my boss and she was not treating me well. I kind of wish I didn't because I don't feel like I'm active enough but my exercise ball has help sooo much :)
Thats lucky :) did you quit ? @mommymakwa00 know I felt so bad for not going but ireally dont feel good. He called and apologized and admited he was wrong but its too hot where iam idont want to pass out in the heat :/ im looking for an insode jib but so far no luck
He needs to be more considerate. That heat is no joke even worse when you're pregnant.
That's not cool, my boyfriend begged me to quit my job so I could "grow his child" your body can endure a lot but heat can cause some serious issues for a momma to be, you were totally in the right girl.
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