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one. more. time.

I swear on all that is good and holy that if one more person asks me if I'm having twins or if I'mabout to pop any day now, I will kick them up side the head. When I respond " nope, just one and got a little less then three more months left " they give me this wide eyed look like I'm lying or something. Funny thing is, its always then men thay say this ****! Its like " im sorry sir but i have a good reason to have a big ol.belly!I'm growing a strong healthy baby and about to push water melon out of a straw size hole! What have you done today other then stick your foot in your mouth?"  Soooo... I'd you guys don't hear from me its because I'm in jail for kicking someone in the teeth!  Just needed to vent lol
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Everyone says my bump is small and I look about 4 months ... except my mother in law I guess ! I'm 32 weeks by the way ... she was like .. are you sure you're not having twins ? Uhm b*tch are you sure you wanna ask me that ? I just think it's funny that she must say that to **** me off or make me feel uncomfortable because I have never heard someone say I'm big. Even my nurse practitioner says I'm a bit on the smaller side.
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Oh my gosh yes!  The guy at the dry cleaners asked if I  was having twins, when I told him no he said 'then you must be having a little football player,' I said.. ITS A GIRL!   ugh it must be a guy thing! I am 33w
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I am 33 weeks and I had lost 30 lbs before I got pregnant. Now I don't look like I am 33 weeks. I get asked all the time if I am pregnant or how much longer the look I get when I tell them 7 weeks they think I am to small. I got told my belly looks like a basketball in my shirt. Its frustrating the looks people give when they see me pregnant and looking like I am twelve when I am 23. Grrrrrrr lol
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You gotta think of things to say back, start freaking out like 'What? Im not pregnant you a**hole, i have a slow metabolism' Make them feel like a jerk
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7915225 tn?1539215847
@tata lolest...gal.
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I have that problem too. I actually had to make a facebook status and say that the next person that asks me if im having twins will get an ear full
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ppl ask me how long i got left when i say a week they cant believe it im small anyway but my bump is rediculasly small i dont even feel full term myself wish i did maybe wouldnt have so much pressure on back x
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1123420 tn?1350561158
I'm getting sick of people telling me I'm too small and not fat enough! Ughhh!! I'm 26+5 weeks and I know I'm smaller then I should be but stfu about it already! I bartend/waitress so it's every single day. Multiple times! I don't have a huge appetite or
cravings, and it bothers me too, I feel like a disgrace to pregnant women. So that on top of working on my feet and being so active, I've only gained 8lbs, all baby! Havnt gained weight in the face, legs, butt, no where but my lull belly. It's my second and with my first I was huge!!!! And gained 40lbs.  At almost 7 months, I probably look what I did with my son at a bout about 4-5 months.  
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I just don't get it... It seems like sense we are pregnant people think its okay to comment on how large or how small you are! Because you don't just walk up to someone of the lager size and say " dayyyyum your huge!" But for some reason is okay for people to say it to pregnant women. And it can go the opposite to like chloglow was saying
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7915225 tn?1539215847
To me its the ladies. I hate "the look" they give me. Its like i told them i was due n went past. Lol...its soo freaking cracking. I feel like i cud give them a nock in the face. My hubby told me his friends r asking too. Lol...he used to tel m to stop makin a fuss abt it bt now that he knows wat it feels lyk he gets soo mad.
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5951558 tn?1396980975
I'll never understand how people can be so judgemental towards a pregnant girl. People go crazy when I tell them I'm 8 months saying I look like I'm 3 months n asking is my baby growing. Smh. N then people at work see me everyday & say wow you're getting big!! Like duh u idiots I'm pregnant what did u expect! Pregnancy is a wonderful time in a female's life but people tend to get under our skin with sarcasm n just plain dumb comments...that u can't wait until it's over! Lol hang in there though! We good!
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I just give them the look 'I'm going to kill you look' like seriously!!! I hate that the MOST! I'm supposed to get big and look big and BE BIG shoot if I was 25weeks and looked like I was 20lbs then say something but I'm not! I'm healthy baby is healthy and your a ****.. Keep walking buddy!
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7677085 tn?1395374075
Haha it always seems like you can't get any bigger... and then you do! Pregnancy is cruel like that!
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Yeah! I'm allllll bellly. I think that's why I'm so big is because I've gained 30 lbs but I'm still tiny but just have a big belly. 27w3days and so I can only imagine how much bigger I'll get
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7677085 tn?1395374075
I hear ya. I'll probably get that more this time. I'm only ten weeks and already have a bump. And I know I'm not getting fat. I've actually lost a good fifteen or twenty pounds since getting pregnant. But I'm already showing! I can just imagine how huge I'll be by the time we find out the gender. Ugh.
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