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So mad!!!!!

just found out my baby's father has a new gf with 3 kids...but don't want nothing to do with our daughter who will be here in January. He has done nothing for her!!! It just seems so unfair to my daughter that he wants nothing to do with her but will help raise some other women's children??
I do not care he has a gf as I have a new boyfriend also. I just don't know what to think, am I just being selfish and over reacting?
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I'm sure ull find another man to make both if you happy, just remember it's his loss not urs
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Having similar issues here. I'm 22 and pregnant with my first who will be here in April. The father said he wants to be involved but is never available to contact and hasn't done a single thing throughout my entire pregnancy. He's a year older than me and I just found out he is now dating a 16 year old. The best thing you can do is plan that you will be doing it alone but keep the lines of communication open for him. It's hard but all you can do is focus on you and your little one. You're lucky to have a new partner who is obviously understanding of your situation and I hope it all works out for you!!
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My son's (sd) wanted nothing to do with him and he is now married with a kid. My husband is the perfect father for him amd I don't regret nothing. I've never tried to make him benin my son's life. There are women that will tell you take him for childsupport and make him but I have llearned that you can't make anyone be a parent if they dont want too. Good luck
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No, you're not! That's ridiculous!
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