buying my baby stuff

[Lovingbaby1115]

Next month I find out my babys gender after I find out my babys gender I want to spend 100dollars on my babys things I feel like im the only one who cares about making sure my child has clothes before it comes into this world. If I tell my boyfriend I want to spend 100dollars out of my paycheck I feel like he will get mad at me for it but I feel like im not wrong for buying my baby clothes and diapers and whips before it comes I feel like im going to be doing all this alone I doubt I will have a baby shower because I really don't have family I just have alot on my mind I just want my child to have alot of stuff before it comes

[ambsss]

For my babyshower i probably had about 12 guests for my first , and i honestly thought i got nothing for my baby but when i had to open thw presents i got more than enough clothes and pampers and etc it really helped alot ! I think you should give it a shot !:)

[Octmommy2015]

I totally feel you I'm in the same boat. But every penny counts even if it doesn't seem like it.

[Lovingbaby1115]

Im the only one paying bills its actually hard and stressfull on me when I do have to think about my childs needs to

[Octmommy2015]

Spend whatever you can afford and feel comfortable spending. Obviously you can't neglect bills and things but even if it's just 20-40$ a pay period that you set aside till you have what you want then do it. There's nothing wrong with that.