Just wanted to let you know that I smoke as well. I am not proud of it but when I tried to quit it sent me into preterm labor. The doc suggested I continue to smoke just smoke less.
I've definitely quit just ***** it took me this long :/
Yeah I found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks and tried to justify it the same way by saying "well I have friends that smoked through their pregnancy and their babies are fine" but that doesn't always work out. Finally at 10 weeks a girl commented on my facebook status saying "you know, I used to smoke a pack a day and smoke weed everyday, the DAY I found out I was pregnant, I quit everything. You have to stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about the life growing inside you!! Smmfh." This was a girl I used to be friends with. I was so pissed off that I got high (like always) and went to sleep. But the next day I kept reading it over and over and realized....that she was right. Sometimes it takes a wake up call to realize something like that. I quit that day and haven't smoked anything since before thanksgiving.
The best thing you can do is quit now. Don't beat yourself up over what you can't change, just learn from it which it seems like you have. I hope other people find these stories inspirational as well.
Brave girl. Its harder for some. I quit cold turkey when I found out about the baby. It was hard but I knew if I didn't stop then I wouldnt stop halfway through my pregnancy. Your right I believe there are women that will see your story and hopefully change their life. God gave courage to people like u for a reason.
I just don't want anyone to think they are invincible like I did or to have regret I do.
Wow. It took a lot of courage to admit all that and realize what's really important here. Yes, some people do get lucky with having healthy babies even though they smoke through pregnancy, but if it COULD cause complications, why even risk it? I hope everything goes well with your baby and thank you for putting your story out there. Best of luck to you hun.