mood swings

[AKJD2209]

So me and My boyfriend can not get along for the life of us, it's because of my mood swings.. he's trying really hard not to get upset with me but it's hard on him, when one second I'm all lovey dovey then the next I want to rip his head off.. so I'm curious if anyone can help me with this, like if there is a certain thing i can do to reduce the mood swings..

[JoyRenee]

I was 19 when I got pregnant with my first, so I completely understand. ;-) Hang in there! There's a light at the end of the tunnel.

[AKJD2209]

yeah, my doctor gave me a bunch of stuff and I had him read it but he's still like WHAT THE HELL! and yesterday he said he wishes he was the one pregnant not me, so he could dish it out and I could take it. lol he's doing better with me now, but it's still really stressful; and us being in college is making things worse. Because I want to be home where my family is for the support from them, and I'm stuck 3 hours away, so it makes my moods swings worse.

[faye83]

Make him read a bout pregnancy mood swings. i'm almost 3 months pregnant and I'm having the worst mood swings ever. But he read a lot about pregnancy symptoms and he knows its not my fault....so after the baby is born I wont have any excuse left lol

[AKJD2209]

The problem is, that I think I get more angry when he walks away from me, because I feel like he should comfort me and try to calm me down. I'm only 19 so we're young, and this wasn't planned so it's hard really hard on me. We're both in college and we're trying our hardest my mom knows and she's very supportive but he hasn't told his parents yet, so that's another thing that's tickin me off ya know?

[AKJD2209]

Yes I am pregnant, I'm about two months pregnant. First baby, and wasn't planned because we're both 2nd years in college so I'm only 19. I have to appreciate him for not slapping me, because i flip on the tiniest things.I will try to breathe more often instead of flipping out, it's just extremely hard to do it.

[Riot_Queen]

LOL there's really nothing you can do about this.
I'm a complete B*TCH to begin with, and I'm a NIGHTMARE when I'm pregnant!

My first pregnancy was THE WORST cuz neither me nor hubby new wtf to expect and he didn't understand why I was so moody all the time.
All we did was fight and bicker. And then somehow we'd squeeze an "I love you" in here n there.
LMAO

This pregnancy hasn't been AS bad because hubby's working 3rd shift as a prison gaurd for 12 hours straight for 6 days in a row, and when he's home he's usually sleeping.
After working for 6 days, he gets 2 days off, so we appreciate our time together more and have less to fight about cuz we're too busy catching up n loving up on eachother. lol

But we do manage to squeeze a b*tch fit into our lives ATLEAST once or twice a week. lmao.
But that's mostly because he's a SLOB and I'm a neat freak. lmao

It'll be fine once you have the baby.
Unless you end up in the same situation as I did after I had my first baby cuz hubby was scared and avoided whatever room me n the baby were in cuz he didn't know wtf to do. lolol

Just tell your bf whenever you get in your moods to just walk away.
Mine learned that the hard way.
Tell him not to say ANYTHING cuz that'll make it worse, whether he say "Yes, whatever you say hunny" or "No f*ck you b*tch"
Cuz you're either gunna get mad that he's being a buttface, or you're gunna get mad cuz he's agreeing with you and won't fuel your fire.
lmao

[JoyRenee]

Are you pregnant? Or think you could be?

Mood swings are difficult for every pregnant woman to contend with. I personally had to make a conscious effort to take a deep breath, to try not to over-react to things and to not use my condition as an excuse to make everyone around me miserable.

There's nothing you can take or do, except to make the choice not to give in to the anger.