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"morning sickness" in public = [

Ok ladies today was sooo embarrassing!!! I made it all the way threw walmart feeling great! Get to the car take a sip if pepsi... and bam! It hits... this lady and her husband decide to point me out as im trying to hide by the car... and start talking and shouting "eww!"... Now what would this woman like for me to do?!?!? Run back inside try to make it to the bathroom... ugh... to top it off my mom stading there trying to help hears the lady say something about drugs!!!!! IM PREGNANT NOT ON DRUGS!!! How do you ladies deal with this... like i said i am so embarrassed ugh!!! = [
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I would of ran up to her and showed her the real "eww"  by letting it go on her face lol. The first time I puked was at mc donalds. We were on the drive through and just looking at the pictures made it happen lol all over my boyfriends car. He had just cleaned it lol..he still got me my mcflurry :-)  
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Thanks ladies!!! Y'all are making me feel much better! As for the anxiety its very possible that i am nervous about having the baby and eventually having to discipline he or she... lol not sure.. i made it threw an entire day at my sisters birthday party today!!! Was very proud of myself.. untill jus about 20 minutes ago lol... guess i wont be eating cherries or nectarines any time soon= ]!!!
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2136147 tn?1336405833
People are just snobby jerks sometimes. Live to think they know everything and are holier than thou so to speak. I haven't had that major sickness thing happen to me, I think the only times I've ever thrown up in my life were when I had strep throat, but God do I get looks for my pregnancies even if I am with my husband. They just make you so mad you want to throw the nearest thing at them! But I will say Walmart had always been the worst place to go for me during both pregnancies. It gets so hot in there, you tire from the walking and there are no benches for breaks anymore at mine, and lucky me, every time I really need to get in the dang bathroom, they are closed! I've nearly blacked out a few times in their store, so much that the hub restricted me from going for the longest time. Seeing me collapse once was enough for him!
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I felt myself getting sick in the car once  i was pregnant with my first and told my husband to pull over so he pulls over next to a drive thru so while people were ordering there food they had a great few of me throwing up lol.  Another time i was in labor and got to the hospital and almost made it to the bathroom but puked in the water fountain lol
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Its Walmart...who cares about a lady at Walmart? Go check out the People of Walmart website and you'll feel way better about yourself. ;)

As for your anxiety,  could you maybe be a little concerned about your child misbehaving and needing scolding? I know I used to get anxious when I saw a screaming kid in public. Thinking about how one day it'll be me. Those are the few and far btwn moments as long as ur child isn't spoiled.
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1999115 tn?1332265324
I went out for breakfast one time with my aunt and sister , and felt completely fine. one of the better days to be honest lol. so we get to Walmart to do some baby shopping, and literally as soon as I closed the door to the car, puked all over the cement :( luckily noone was there to see it actually happen. buti was pretty embarrassed. I never before puked in public :/ but my aunt just kept telling me over and over " your pregnant it happens, don't worry about it " which made me feel a lil better, she gave me some gum and we were on our way ! felt better after that tho lol
people are deffinately just rude , and don't kno how to keep comments to themselves . don't stress it (-:
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2113262 tn?1346101921
So you are anxious when other people scold the other kids? I am a momma bear so if anyone scolds my kid my claws come out lol. It sounds like you just feel extremely empathetic towards the kids, which is a good quality to have. I just cringe when my husband gets onto my girls, even when they deserve it bc I feel like my feelings get hurt worse then theirs bc they are my babies:) but when you are the parent its a lot different with your own child. My girls are 4 and 6 and my oldest is very emotional so when she gets upset I know things are normally fine, my youngest is my tough girl so I tend to panic if she gets terribly upset by something.
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I thought the same thing! I mean i understand i am very pale today and may account for her rude thoughts and outburst... but she had a child with her... and ugh it was awful as i tryd to "get away" from all the people it seemed i got more attention... im not so sure ill be going out in public again until this hopefully passes!!! Ive got one more question to ask you dnp!?! Your other child i assume was around during your pregnancy... ive had this strange overwhelming panicky feeling when say im around my niece and she gets upset or in trouble.. and when i say panicky i meeb heart racing sweating and just over all i guess a panic attack... this alao happens with my 9 year old sister... but mostly when she yells or gets in trouble! Did this happen with you? Im not sure what to make of it..???
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2113262 tn?1346101921
I forgot to add, I have had someone accuse me of drugs now that I think about it, a few months after I had my last baby I lost all my weight pretty quickly, I breast fed and had a new born and a toddler...I was busy. I actually had people ask me if I was "tweaking to lose weight" ugh....so I feel your frustrations:)
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2113262 tn?1346101921
I puked in the parking lot at walmart! They were redoing the asphalt and the smell was very very strong, and I puked in front of quite a few people, no one said anything tho. People are ignorant, I don't know why they'd think drugs....like how often do you see people on drugs puking? I don't know any drugies and don't do them myself, I would have assumed pregnant sickness:) now if I saw you puking at 2 am outside a night club I might think alcohol was involved;)
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