mother in law

[mcmillens2013]

Does anyone else have a mother in law who thinks its okay to post what the gender of your baby is before you or your husband have the chance to? Or post pictures of the baby's room before us too? And says it doesn't matter that she posted it because it only went out to her friends and not any of ours... and be mad at us for saying that it wasnt her place to have posted it yet and that she just wants to show her excitement for the baby and mad at us for not letting her. How do you deal with people like this? Seriously I'm 19 weeks pregnant and I'm so upset about this and she makes it seem like its not even a big deal. Its my f-ing baby and she has taken things away from me that I will never get back.

[mollymarley94]

No I'd b mad

[SD_CALI]

Negative the bby is yours the fact that  is her grandchildren doesn't change anything is ur bby not hers.  Me an my mother in law don't get along shes always In our business finally she understood that me n her can't have a good communication because the way she is. One thing that in Going to give her a grandchildren doesn't change anything bten me n her.

[Retro_Raven]

Anotherboyinnovforthismommy I actually think your crazy it is HER child and she only has to share whatever her and her partner are comfortable with sharing, her child is not a toy it will be her son/daughter and she has the absolute right to be in charge (alongside the father) of anything to do with him and if people don't understand that then she has the RIGHT to put her foot down and say her child her rules and they need to be respected.

[AnotherBoyInNovForThisMommy]

Don't forget she's your baby's grandmother. I completely disagree with the idea that the child is all yours that's ridiculous. When it domes to how you raise your child ok yes. But everything else is to be shared. And remember hormones make you feel strongly about things that won't matter latter.

[aubree_azariah]

- for example this happened to me my ex sister N- law was always around my baby when I was busy she would take care of her well one day I went to store came back and I got on my fb and she had put a video of my daughter running in the hallway with no pamper on and she thought that was cute and I told her who do you think you are posting things like that of my baby shouldn't you ask me first she said no cause that's my niece I could post whatever I want and I got mad at her and I said no you cannot she's my daughter thing sou ask me first and she didn't listen to me she was just laughing

[showard022]

I would be very upset. It's disresepctfull. If she wanted her friends to know things maybe offer to tag her in posts.