PLS HELP!! can i have kids?

[curiousgirl07]

Well i have irregular periods, i get them each month but sometimes in the begining middle and end its been 3 times i thought i was pregnant because my periods are late.
Im try to concieve but really dont know if i can i've tried the "sex every day" & no luck!
Me & my husband really want a baby.
In my dad's side of the family he has an unlce(grandmother's brother) that can not have kids!
Does that mean maybe i cant either, im scared to go to the doctor to see if i can/cant! i've been off of birthcontrol for 6 months i was on them a little more then a year! is it possible i cant have kids??

[mamaof4410]

Lol true! But again BABY DUST TO ALL OF YOU!!!!

[SiSi_]

@momma I know that's the reason! But she is married so I couldn't say maybe she needs another partner lol!

[Dianav1986]

My period use to come once every few months and than stay for like two weeks...in july I got it for almost three months straight...i went to planned parent hood they gave me a pill which they said acted as a dmc to clear my body out...that was in oct. In nov I became preg with my first. I am now 11w1d so point being having sporatic periods or irregular sont really mean you can concieve. But go to a dr just to be of the safe side....good luck

[curiousgirl07]

Thank you ladies! Hopefully i have a baby soon!
& as soon as i do im sure i'll be on here telling everyone, so happy!

[mamaof4410]

Sis I sound like God had a different plan for you and your partner:-).  It happens when its suppose to! Baby dust to all of you ladies!

[SiSi_]

I ttc with my ex for a year n I had a blighted ovum. Once I saw my doc after mc she told me I had an "11%" Chance of becoming pregnant due to my irregular periods! We broke up and a couple years passed and I met my bf who I am with now. After only 1 month of ttc, I was pregnant! It may take time, but it is possible!

[mamaof4410]

It takes an average couple about a year to conceive. And a woman only has about a 25% to 30% chance of concieving each month. I'd say stop trying at least mentally. You will drive yourself crazy and then sex becomes a chore. No one lines chores:-).  Take it one day at a time and try to keep track of your cycles. I've seen so many women in here throw up their hands and say they're done trying. Then two months later they come back to this forum saying they just got a positive test. Best of luck to you and your partner.

[curiousgirl07]

Thank you very much, i'll try to set up a doctors appointment for it.
Me & my husband really want a baby!

[sehale]

That's really not something we can tell you. If you've had sex every day and still haven't had any luck, it's probably best to see a doctor.

You may just have trouble conceiving, and a doctor can help. It's best for you and your husband to get checked to see where the problem is.

Since you have irregular periods, it's probably a problem for you. However, since you do have a period it should be able to be treated.

Check with a fertility specialist. Good luck!