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[ladii_keya]

I'm 19 &' today I'm 10 weeks 3 days with my first. I'm kinda upset because my boyfriend &' I really want this baby together &' we're excited but my family has been shutting him out. We live together, but my mom picked me up last weekend to visit home &' was supposed to take me back 3 days later. It's been over a week &' I'm still here &' got word that my mom is telling family I'm staying home. At this point I'm really distraught because I would rather be around my boyfriend at this time, but my mom is kinda trapping me at home. :( depressed. What to do?

[ladii_keya]

Thanx for the support ladies. Ill be sure to keep all of yu updated

[Linny5511]

I'm glad you're back, i think she'll come around eventually, especially whwn the baby is here. Keep trying, but dont push. Good luck and enjoy being back home with your bf.

[ladii_keya]

Luckily I'm back with my boyfriend even though the talk with my mom was a dead end but I'm determined to keep trying.

[Linny5511]

That is one hell of a long trip. Your boyfriend sounds like a good guy.

[Linny5511]

I am so happy they are coming to get you.

[ladii_keya]

My boyfriend &' his mom are makin the 3 hour trip to pick me up now. I'm so relieved. My mom claimed to be too busy to take me back today but its funny she's right here watching tv. Just glad I'm leaving today but my mom will get a good talk before I go

[lpewitt44]

Sounds like mom has some issues....youre 19 years,old and can come and go as u please...

[Linny5511]

Definitely give her the talk i told you about and if she still wont take you home get someone else to, ride a bus or something. :\ you need to let her know you are an adult and in control of your life now. She no longet has the power or say so to make you do anything you dont want to do. I hope you get home soon. Let us know how it goes.

[Morrisfamily2012]

She's over stepping her boundries. She needs to realize you are an adult and can make your own choices. My mom despises my bf but she trys very very hard to be nice and accept him. Can't your bf or someone else come get you? Or you could just beg your to take you. I'd walk if I had no other chioce. No one can trap me.

[TxMamma]

Oh ok. Yea I could see how they'd do that.

[ladii_keya]

We go to the same ob/gyn so they think nothin of it wen she calls on my behalf, but I've informed them to not allow it anymore

[TxMamma]

If ur of legal age, how can she make ur prenatal appointments?

[ladii_keya]

Its more of a 'she is giving my boyfriend the cold shoulder' type deal .. she's even went so far as to make prenatal appts herself &' say he can't come which is unfair &' I feel like I'm stuck between my two families. Its very stressful

[laylo_seeds]

My mom wants me to stay a week at her house lol this is her first grandchild and she is obsessing about it more then I am..she's probably going through a "my baby is having a baby" moment. I would talk with her and let her know that you're grown and want your boyfriend to experience your pregnancy as well..i say this because ill have to deal with it next  month

[TxMamma]

How odd, I'd for sure see if someone else could come get you. Is she making excuses not to take u home?

[lil_misss23]

Thats not cool that shes doing that! Have you asked her about it? How far away from him are you? Can he come and get you? Or someone else, friend or family?