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4725879 tn?1368826572

Vent/Advice/Help? :(

So I'm kinda sexually frustrated.. My bf doesn't seem to understand that right now I'm extremely self conscious because I'm just getting to where i barely fit into my regular clothes, but I'm waaay to small for maternity clothing to fit right.
He needs some form of release daily, which is fine. But for the past week he's been solo releasing leaving me feeling like the sloppy seconds. If i can manage to get past feeling that way & we do try to become intimate, it becomes all about him getting his d i c k wet!! He'll be here late & try to quick **** me with some spit & expect it to be good! Then has the nerve to ask if i came.. Wtf do you think.

Any advice as to what i can do, or say? I'm at a serious loss right now. Thanks
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4725879 tn?1368826572
I couldn't agree more ladies thank you :)
& kelseysmom, i died when i read this because it's so true! How the hell is rubbing dry vadge & penis together sexy on any level? To him though, rejection is nothing. He'll just wack off the next day & i go on being frustrated because I don't like to release without him :(
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5268435 tn?1367082384
I had a similar issue. Mine thought pregnant vagina was always wet and ready 24/7 and thought he could slide in there no foreplay. Until I rejected him telling him lazy penis does not turn me on and that he is not making me want him. How would he feel if you expected him to perform with a limp d i c k.
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I understand where you coming from because I'm 35 weeks and hubby doesn't get it on a regular because I be tired or sleep by the time he gets in.. but waking up to a wet tongue inside does good enough if he does it right. Ill c u m sometimes just by that and fall right back to sleep.. or we vice versa!!
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4654011 tn?1357643122
Tell him just cause your pregnant doesn't mean the rumors arent true about getting off quick. Tell him you want the love that goes with it. Or when you want it take control of the situation lol
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