my best friend just told me

[kaciie90]

my best friend just told me she is pregnant. im so excited expecially if i am to. (the only reason i say if i am too is bc i had a possitive test and a negative test)
so im taking another one tommrow.
i think it is going to be great being pregnant at the same time as my best friend!!!!

what do yall think???

[kaciie90]

my mom took it a whole lot better than i thought!
she is happy

[Jame0223]

YAY Congrats hun! :) Don't worry about tonight...it may not be that bad! He's going to have to know either way. I think you'll be fine. Just remind yourself that you have to tell him and that he needs to know. You can do it! I hope he steps up, at least for the baby. IF not...then your baby is better off with out his ***! Good luck tonight!

[kaciie90]

yeah i understand that and i know me and him wont get back together but he should step up and be a father to his kid

but idk i wont find out what he is going to do until i talk to him about it tonight.
gahhh im so nervous.

[shasy03]

CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!

I hope he is a man and steps up too.  Good luck and have a happy healthy 9 months!!!

[chitten]

You have to realise ( and i dont wanna offend you but im speaking from experience here ) that things arent gonna be perfect.

Like me, you were seperated when you fell pregnant, and just because you're having his baby doesnt mean to say you will get back together.
If he has moved on, the chances are thats because he doesnt want to be with you.

It hurts like hell - i know.

But you also have to be prepared for the chance that he may accuse you of doing this on purpose to trap him. If he feels stuck, he will prob say a whole loada nasty hurtful things.

My ex knew i was on the pill so we never ever expected to fall pregnant but i was 2 months gone when i found out.

I was gonna have a termination but i changed my mind.

He has since suggested that i didnt go through with it as i hoped we would get back together.

Truth is, i dont wanna be with him and i now no i deserve better.

I just hope you understand that he might not be as happy about this as you are.

[kaciie90]

yeah i know

its just that i want my baby to have a father because when i was younger i didnt have a father figure in my life, he came around only when he felt like it. but when my mom married my stepdad me and him have never gotten along. he is the reason me and my mom are not close and dont have a good mother daughter relationship.

but the thing about it is that my ex might not want to step up. but his parents would end up making him step up. bc when me and him were dating i had a pregnancy scare and he told his parents and his mom called me and talked to me for a while and told me she would come with me to talk to my mom and if my mom kicked me out that i would move in with them.  
but i dont see things happiniing like that now