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7184931 tn?1390773745

naming my son

Its not a question more of a rant..
My sons father has denied him from day one and I also found out on my own birthday he gave me an std.. ive had his name picked out for a couple months, now he's asking if he can name him something completely different and him to not even have my last name even though he's never cared to ask about our son. I'm not going to cause none of my sisters agree with it and are the ones supporting me with getting things atm and dislike him period. I dont know if anyone else is going thru this but I just feel like killing him (not literally)
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7184931 tn?1390773745
Yeah I was thinking about doing that so I screeshot the text as a precaution
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Get a restraining order against him and his family for making threats
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7184931 tn?1390773745
I let him think I was agreeing with him. Even though I felt like cussing him out but I dont want to stress myself anymore with arguing. Ive tried leaving him alone all together but his family members have contacted me cussing me out saying they were gonna harm me while being pregnant. Ive looked into getting his rights taken away but its expensive.  
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You do what you want to do. Especially if he's denied him. Since you've had a name picked out already I would stick with that name. If you want to be a little giving maybe you can give your son the middle name that his dad picked! Just a thought. Good luck!
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I wud totally tell him to **** off!! You name your son what eva you want! What has he done to deserve a say in the naming of this child as you say. A name is a priviledge to be a part of not a ryt!
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