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9601554 tn?1405023212

need advice!

Ok ladies I seriously need Yall advice on this one. Ok so I am very serious when it comes to my girl and my unborn kid, and I'll do what ever it take to make sure they ate taking care of.  So lets think about what's best for the baby, ok so we use to love in Ga but now we love in Texas, while in GA we had a 2 bedroom/2 bathroom for 730 a mouth, with water included and the apartment complex would pay  $90 on your water bill, now we love in Texas where we have a one bedroom/one bathroom for just 900 dang dollars...we both work at jobs that don't pay much..we moved to Texas for more opportunity, but we, haven't found any...so we have a 900 rent, a $35 water bill, and 100 light bill...and about 60-70 a month for gas since everything is spaced out....now the apartment we had in Ga is still under my name and I have until the 27th of this month to renew...or we could stay here and pay over 900 dollars for this apartment and don't forget phone bills and my car note....now  Im just tryna figure out what would be better for the baby...take my butt back to Ga so I can actually save money..or stay here with this high price apartment....and all the apartments in this area is 800+...and Im not worried about me...Im worried about my girl and the baby...I feel like Ga would be great because when my girl and I lived there we had no money issues...I would pay the car note, half my rent, and both of our cell Phone bills on one check....and the job I have now is offering to transfer me if I Wanna go Back to Ga! But my girl is also thinking about our credit report because of the broken lease we would have for leaving...but Im like F it...Im more worried about my child coming into this world and not being able to spoil him or her....so I know it's alot, but Pleaz put your self in our shoes and give me your HONEST opinion thanks
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9601554 tn?1405023212
Thanks ladies, I canny wait until she gets home and read the comments of future and/or current mommies:)
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I would go back. She will have to take time off when the baby comes even if it's just a little bit but it will make things even harder
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9207519 tn?1407111405
@Octoberbaby5 where do you live!? Lol
That's amazing.  
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What does your girl want?
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I say go back GA.
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I live in rock hill south Carolina :)
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Go back
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8856671 tn?1404143983
OctoberBaby5 where do you live lol that's not bad at alllll
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It's better to leave now and break the lease some landlords will agree to not put it on your credit if there are people to live there. If you can't afford it and you end up getting evicted it'll be a lot worse
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9403085 tn?1405038223
i would go back...
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Omg that a lot^ I have a 2bedroom 2 bathroom apartment for 550 lol I feel lucky
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7174950 tn?1406661109
I would go back
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9263335 tn?1403463032
Damn makes me wanna move to GA, me & my husband live with his brother & wife in a one bedroom/1 bathroom apartment & the rent is $1,080. Goodluck though (:
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I would go back
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9121436 tn?1407979502
The only thing is they may make you pay the rest of your lease and can garnish your wages. :(
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Feel free to tell her to join this forum :)
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9601554 tn?1405023212
Thank u guys so much..I'm gonna show this to my girl, I mean she gets my advice all day everyday...and she prolly needed to see this from other future or current mothers:) thanks again and  good luck on your babies;)
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Go back to Ga
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9601554 tn?1405023212
Thank u so much ladies;)
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I would move back to GA there is only so much you can do. My husband and I are stuck in Texas but because of the army we get money for our house bills on top of the regular paycheck
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I woul d go back
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9442948 tn?1406816451
Go back to GA your gonna need the money you save for the baby. Babys are very expensive. Credit will rebuild in time. But do what you know is best for the family, more space and less cost you can't beat it
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I would go back to GA. U don't want to be struggling with a new born baby.
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