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Well my bf decided to post a pic on facebook of him with his shirt off...why would he do that? Were engaged, and hes still looking for attention? Well wegot in a fight and i told him that made me feel like i was nothing just worthless, and he said Well i did it bc im a guy...am i being over dramatic or what? :(

FirstBaby10_2 · Answer

thanks everyone! i just feel like my body is for his eyes only, and it should be the same with his..

pinklie · Answer

I wouldn't mind at all he's proud of himself. My husbend has pics of himself on fb with out a shirt. He's not talking to girls or he does not put pics up with other girls so why get mad.

KaliBrooke · Answer

I wouldn't be okay with that..at all. I agree 100% with what Snowdin28 said.

tiarose92 · Answer

I would definitely have a problem with that!!!!

Snowdin28 · Answer

Here's my take on it. I used to model and I have a very sexy (yet tastefully done) picture of me laying down wearing bikini underwear and a vikings jersey drapped across me with rose pedals. Probably my favorite of all my modeling pictures and so I had them up on facebook.. Well,  my husband felt like that was something that should be for only his eyes and asked me to take it off FB. I was upset about it because I was very proud of that picture, BUT I needed to respect my husband and his feelings so I took it down. If you really don't want his shirtless pic up on facebook then he should take it down. It doesn't really matter if he thinks you're being rational or not. The point is, you dont like it, There is no other explanation needed.

tabygary · Answer

Don't worry at times guys take time to adjust to new developments lic being married or engaged.just be a like bit patient with him dear.don't usually discuss issues lic this when u are still agree , give yoself time to calm down and then tell him nicely how you feel when ever he does things of that sort. Don't worry he will chang.the fact that he is ingaged to u shows that he lovws u so much just give him time he will chang

tabygary · Answer

Don't worry at times guys take time to adjust to new developments lic being married or engaged.just be a like bit patient with him dear.don't usually discuss issues lic this when u are still agree , give yoself time to calm down and then tell him nicely how you feel when ever he does things of that sort. Don't worry he will chang.the fact that he is ingaged to u shows that he lovws u so much just give him time he will chang

shellc428 · Answer

To me it wouldnt be a big deal. Has he been working out and trying to show off his progress? I mean my husband has lost a bunch of weight and looks damnn good and if he wanted to show it off to his bros, I wouldnt care. Unless you think hes doing it to get attention from the ladies then thats not cool. But noo I dont think its a big deal. But I'm from fl and I got just as many pics in a bikini!