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[jlin91]

So I will be 30 weeks with my #2 tomorrow...lost my job in February...my partner has been out of work since September...and omfg it's  impossible to get a job pregnant these days.. The worst part is that now that we are Almost out of our refund money he is only just now trying to get a job..just sits home gaming and drinking all the time..am I over reacting or something...I mean not only do we have a baby coming soon.. But we also have a 4 year old to care for too..but yea really just had to get it all out.

[jlin91]

We have been together 5 years..talking to him just makes him whiney and he drinks more...thought of leaving...but we can't afford to be apart because of our medical...and he has kidney problems...plus it seems after 5 years if I leave it will have been a waste...I guess he does clean every once in awhile... Plus he is the only one that can drive.. So idk...maybe I will just have his dad talk to him

[LillyM321]

But maybe he is responsible enough to know how to have a constructive conversation.  He needs to know what's up and if he listens then great !

[LillyM321]

I have been going through that with my husband too ! In fact he is playing video games right now ! He quit his job and now I am moving in with my mom in a few weeks.  We don't even have our own place we are with my grandma.  He was unemployed for two months and he had a job for two weeks then quit .. seriously. It's not okay. It isn't responsible at all. He used to come home drunk all the time. Spending the little money we had on alcohol plus he dips. I feel for you girl ! I have put up with it for way too long and I'm leaving him.

[kennimae]

I would be mad and he needs to get his priorities in check it sounds.

P.S. I will be 30 weeks tomorrow also with #2

[Ashieej]

Men are difficult sometimes though, gotta love em. And hate em at the same time. Haha..

[Ashieej]

I'd definitely be giving some ultimatums. Its kind of rediculous him just lazing around, you are pregnant! You need rest you can't be responsible for everything and making a baby while he just sits there. I went through it at first with my boyfriend. He finally is getting his crap together.