I only had direct family visit and they only came once! It's so stressful and tiring having a baby. The hospital is you're time (:
This time around I don't want anyone at the hospital the first day we are there. I have to have a csection again and I want the first day just my husband our new son and myself
I think it is so important to have that special bonding time! I am due in a week and at my hospital they allow people in the room for the birth, but once baby is here they will kick everyone out for an hour so mom, dad, and baby can bond and they can start to breast feed. I am so happy about this and I would definitely suggest it if your hospital doesn't require it. It's your baby and those first moments of life you will never get back. Make them count and forget what visitors think. It's a very important time!