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omg... im so depressed - i just want to leave...
I'm 18w tomorrow and haven't felt my girl in a while... I usually feel her every night but nothing for the part 3 or so days. I literally have so much stress, I cant even go to school anymore. Some girl started threatening me for no reason, even knowing I'm pregnant. I called the cops, they cant really do anything about my safety. And the school cant either - although I have changed my classes too night time classes instead of days. Which means I go from 6 classes to 2 a week. It isn't fair... I did nothing. Tomorrow is a week since she threatened me. I don't feel comfortable walking around town by myself or anything. I was suppose to go day classes today to try it out - my boyfriend was even going to walk me to school, but I don't feel comfortable so I'm not going. He doesn't really get it. I'm so depressed... I'm 21, this shouldn't be happening to me. I'm in college for Christ sakes... I cant stop crying. I know hes frusterated with me but I just cant help it. It isn't happening to him... he can still do whatever he wants. I have to wait for a drive to go anywhere... I was starting to feel better and then she found my instagram account and liked all my pregnancy pictures....
Wooow thats crazi i couldnt imagine having to go thru that. First i was thnkn Highschool n then yu said college. She needs to grow up n realize lifes too short to hv sooo much hatred twrds peop. I jus wish the best fo yu n ur family cause that is a scary situation.
Well, in that case, i don't blame you at all for not wanting to go. Honestly (although school is very important) my child is the most important thing, and keeping him/her safe is most important. If you did go to school and that psycho decided to really try something, and something happened to your baby, it would be something you'd have to live with forever knowing that you had a gut feeling it wasn't safe.. I'd explain that to your boyfriend.. I'm sure he'd feel the same way if you did go and something happened because he talked you into it. She sounds like a damn quack!!! Who thinks those kind of thoughts?!! Especially someone that did nothing to you!
Actually, I went to the school, I had a big old meeting and everything. I printed the conversations out and everything. I'm not even the only one whos gone to them. They cant do anything. :( they know shes disgusting and also that she steals from people at school but you cant prove it. The cops and the school concern is that you can prove who was on the other ens of the computer so they're hands are tied. I can press charges but still no proof. I can file a peace bond, but if they didn't show, I have to go trial. The school said they'd keep an eye out and do whatever to make me feel safe at school but it isn't enough. She said horrible things, like how she was going to beat me until my baby bled out... not fair. I bassically have to live in this depression because no one can do anything.
I would also talk to someone in your school about her threats, and her history. Tell them you don't feel safe and that you're considering leaving over it, I'm sure they'll take you seriously, as you're pregnant and you've come to them for help from this.. if something happens and they didn't address it they could be in big trouble!
That's ridiculous! Your school should do something! Can you go talk to the student counselor? Might help?
Girls can be so stupid sometimes. And plain mean. I wish I knew her so I could determine whether or not she was serious. Sometimes you can tell when people are all talk, but since you got a lil one to protect, don't wanna risk it. Like we don't have enough to worry about when we're pregnant! I'm sorry this is happening to you hun. I also think online classes would be a good option for you in this situation. It might be late to switch tho. I wish you the best. Wish I could be of some help!
I know, which makes it so much harder. She doesn't want my man, shes a lesbian, lol. And she has no reason to be such a b!itch to me. We don't ever talk or have communication at all. I heard from people, she just starts stuff with people and threatens them. I normally wouldn't be so worried and stressed but shes been in jail before, she stabbed her girlfriend and beat one of my guy friends with a shovel and robbed him... she isn't the normal catty girl. Shes in my math class and in the same program as me so we see a lot of each other... they don't offer my classes nonline... it seriously isn't very fair.
Why is the gurl harassing yu anyhw...? Is it cause she wants ur boyfriend?? Dont let that get yu down ur n school n needa b focused on ur future for yu n ur child. Dont let any1 step n the way of ur success. If she is that much of a threat mayb drop a few classes on campus n take em online anythng thats Convient for ur safety. Some peop jus try to shake yu up n scare yu but if she hasnt done anythng yet its all jus a game. Dont stress or b depressed ur baby needs u to remain healthy at this time.
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