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Stuck between guys!! Help!!

when I was 8 weeks pregnant I moved back home from college. I was living with my then fiancé and baby's father. But chose to call off the wedding because he couldn't tell his friends no worth anything and was more concerned with them and weed and drinking than me. So I'm now 30 weeks and have been dating this guy for almost 4 months and he loves me and the baby but I just don't feel that same connection with him that I did with my baby's father. And he has contacted me recently saying he grew up and changed his life style and wants our family back. What should I do?' Help!!!
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Thanks yall! :) I think I'm gonna give him another chance! He seems really serious about it this time!
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Give him another chance. It would be great if your baby could have both mom and dad together, but I understand that doesn't always happen. People do grow up once they've realized what they've lost and maybe that's the case with him. Good luck!
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Sometimes it takes dating new people to realize what you actually want. You can't be with a guy if you still love someone else. It isn't right for you or the guy your with. I think the baby's father deserves a second chance but if he hasn't changed then be ready to lose both. I think you should think about your baby and pick the best decision for him/her! Good luck (:
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I completely agree^^
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Give the baby's dad a chance! Some guys do deserve second chances and it's sounds like you guys were pretty serious in the beginning and I think that kind of love is so much more important and hard to find that some guy you've been dating that you don't feel much of a connection with!
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