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[tauruan92]

This is my first child and my bf sec his first child is 5 and she is very vindictive and messy like a grown but immature woman I hate being around her when he has visits and she's been jealous of the baby we just had she calls her names and kicks her car seat I don't know what too do anymore

[tauruan92]

I have talked too him he says well you know how she is her grandparents and mom have her that way

[shelbypaige1991]

There was 5 years between my sister and I. My mom always treated me like I was a huge help with the baby and that she couldn't do it without me. I think that helped quite a bit. I loved the fact that the baby needed big sister because she couldn't do anything for herself yet.

[McGuigan19]

That's exactly how my boyfriends two kids are. A boy who's 5 and a 2 year old little girl.  But we have them full time.  They don't even want me to have my baby girl..  So I know how it feels..

[RedMommy20]

You need to have a talk with him about her actions because there has to be boundaries. Did he prepare her for the baby's arrival ? He has to make that step to stop the jealousy.

[tauruan92]

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