BFN, but AF is 9 days late

[durhamjk1]

It has been 9 days since AF was supposed to arrive and nothing! But I am still testing negative.  I tested this morning and it was BFN!  I'm getting kind of scared that something may be wrong.  My doctor was worried that I may not ovulate every month, b/c my periods are far apart, so he suggested charting my temp,  I was all set to do it, I bought a thermometer and everything, but then this happens.  Oh what to do... I have menstrual cramps for the 9th day straight.  I usually only get them for the 5 days I have AF.  What should I do....

[Gina209]

I too had the Cramps only on one side, but for me it was my left side. I thought it was a good indication that I was Preggo but I guess it was just AF making her little way!

[durhamjk1]

I just now noticed that my menstrual like cramps have mainly been on my right side...what does that mean?  I just wish I had an answer! I do want to be pregnant (we are trying) but if I am not I can handle it.  I just want to know one way or the other.  If anyone has ever been in similar situation or has heard of a similar situation please post! I'd love to hear the possible outcomes of my situation!

[durhamjk1]

Thanks for your input ladies! Has anyone else been in a similar situation?  I'd love to know your outcome!  Thanks!

[Gina209]

Same thing happened to me too. AF was 12 days late! I kept getting Negative Test Results...and I thought for sure I was Pregnant. But she finally showed her face..she was just really late. Which sucked because it gave me even more hope that I was Pregnant, but ohhh well, everything happens for a reason, right?
I hope your story turns out different! If I were you, I would get your HCG tested, the numbers never lie. You can keep getting Negative Results...but with your blood you'll know for sure. Good Luck!

[dreaminofbaby]

I got a BFN this morning too, and what I think is my AF.
I took the test at 12:30 this morning, and 10 mins later there was dark red blood on the tissue after I pee'd. It's 2:57 now and I just got out of a bath. There was only brown on the tampon, and nothing in the water, or on the tissue when I got out. (tmi)- Usually when I take a bath and lean back to wash my hair water gets caught up in there, and when I sit up it pushes it out. There was nothing there either.
My body is just ridiculous sometimes!! The cramping isn't like it was. Infact, it's not even started today.



I hope you find the answers your looking for soon!