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My parents in law are the most ridiculous people ever! They are trying to control my pregnancy.  I dont care that it's there grand kid. Like I know what safe and what I can and can't do while being pregnant.. I know I may be over reacting but my fiances daughter is the biggest brat because of them. They don't tell her and let her boos them around and they don't realize what is wrong and right for a 3 year old. Okay I'm done sorry
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My mother in law drives me crazy. I try hard to be kind to her because it's my fiancées mom and I have respect but she sure does make my want to scream so loud. I've just learnt to nod when she's speaking and not even listen. What she says is irrelevant to me so it goes in one ear and out the other. I've already told everyone if she brings this energy my baby will not be around the negativity.
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I have the same situations that all of you deal with! Like what is with in laws man. I'm glad they like the name we have chose we haven't picked a middle name yet and his step mom wants us to use her middle name.but I don't like the name with the first name. I know they are excited or whatever but like we are on flordia and I know there gonna try to buy a bunch of Minnie stuff. I don't mind mickey and Minnie and stuff but my fiances daughter is already obsessed with it because of them and is feel like it's a little over rated now. I want unique not common. Plus there gonna try to choose my theme for my baby shower and what brand is want for the crib and everything I need for the baby. Like no me and my fiance will be choosing that.
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I deal with the same thing with my in laws, like I ******* hate it, I see how they are with my boyfriend daughter too, they let her walk all over them the min she wakes up they give her candy or ice cream I would be dam if they do that with my kid, she try to tell me and my boyfriend the name we pickd out is ugly  (which is his grandpa name), I won't eat seafood because Im just scared from what I read and she try saying all kinds of things about it, I tell my boyfriend to talk to her tho because I will be the type to cut her off my kids life (sorry if it sounds cold) me n my boyfriend are grown to deal with our own **** we dnt need her 2 cents
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My parents in law stress me out there like where doing this where doing that where naming her this and naming her that and I was like no your not she's not your child she's mine
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10221785 tn?1410990458
Omg I just posted something like this! I feel you 100%!! My mother in law tries to control literally everything!!! She even told me that the outfit I want to bring my baby home from the hospital in wasn't good enough and insisted she go buy something. Its so annoying and I try biting my tongue and I know when I have my son its only going to get worse. I don't know how long that tongue biting is going to last!! Lol
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Its ur pregnancy what can they say?  Just let it go threw one ear and out the other they needa know ur nt gonna let them walk over u / get to u . Mother knows best (:
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