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Problems with baby's father, advice please

Okay i had a auto correct problems when I put this up a second ago. So I'm 20 years old, this is my first pregnancy. I'm 8 weeks pregnant, I found out when I was about 4-5 weeks pregnant. The baby's father was with me when I found out,  he seemed happy about it at the time. Now all we do is fight, he stresses me out and upsets me. Yet, he always says I'm the one who is mean  to him when his always starting the fights, like this morning when he called me a asswhip. My mom and family says I just need to end it but I don't know what to do. Someone please give me some advice.
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When I was 8-12 weeks I was sick all the time. I got irritated easily and went off. My boyfriend would be joking and call me a grouch and I'd get mad. I wouldn't cuddle because I didn't wanna be touched so that made him go off. Now that I realized I was being a jerk, I controlled it and I was also feeling better. You may be going off easily and not knowing it. It happens.
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No, I normally try and let things he says go. I don't like the fighting, I'm normally a claim easy going person. Everyone in my family is picking on me right now about how I lose things easier then before and that their going to have to watch me when I put the baby down when he or she gets here in may become I'll forget and freak out. An most my baby's father and I fights are about my ex who I don't even talk to anyone, about how I don't feel like cuddling or how I'm wrong.
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If you love him you should push through it.. no relationship is perfect there are arguments and fights but thats in EVERY relationship. When neither one of you are mad talk to him and tell him how you feel.
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10592317 tn?1416534566
Is he joking around with you, and you're taking it to heart. Because of your hormones it makes things more sensitive. My boyfriend did that and I just ignored it and he finally got it. Men don't understand how a pregnant woman feels. Are you also getting snippy and cranky with him easily?
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