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So I am 26 weeks pregnant with my 2nd baby! Very excited except it seems like every time my husband and I have intercourse it is very painful for me. So I am just not in the mood anymore because it hurts to do anything. I never had this problem with my first pregnancy. With it being so painful we just stopped doing it. It been weeks and my husband is constantly pressuring me about it. I just don't know what to do. So does anyone have any advice for me? Or has anyone ever experienced this before?
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I had the same.problems with my first pregnancy and.with this one. It was just kind of like a dull ache everytime he was inside me and id always have to make him stop. Just makr sure your wet enough (naturally or with lube) and go very slow. I found its not so painful if he goes slow. But if you dont enjoy it then dont.make yourself. You did marry him for.better or worse but that doesnt mean that you have to put yourself in pain just to please him. And if its been weeks, it may not hurt anymore. When i got into my 3rd trimester, it didnt hurt anymore and i even wanted it more than he did. Lol.good luck.
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I was the same way first pregnancy it never bothered me.. Now my 2nd pregnancy it hurts a bit but we do it anyways
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I was having this problem before I got pregnant. My fiance and I have worked it out so that if he is in the mood and I'm not I just help him out with my hand. He has been really horny since we found out I was pregnant and it's just been stressful for me because I'm really not in the mood. Try and see if you can work something out with him where you don't have to actually have sex but he can still be satisfied. Also if you haven't told him it's painful try explaining it to him, my fiance was super understanding about it.
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Its probably from swelling and blood flow. Even lube stull hurts. As his wife I hate to say but you gotta suck it up for his sake. You agreed to be there for him in sickness and in health. Hes supporting you through your pregnancy and you have two hands and a mouth lol. Hell, depending how freaky yall get in bed, you have feet too, bahaha. Ok sorry. Im an incredibly sexually driven person prior to pregnancy and it got even worse once I became pregnant. But since it hurts I still take care of my bf. He has needs and I feel as his gf i have to and WANT to take care of him. But I find something incredibly pleasing about knowing I got him off. Just my opinion though momma.
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