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please please help

I know this sounds bad but I need help big big time. Please do not judge me.. but I went to a party and got trashed and that was June 12.... and yes I do have a boyfriend and no he was not with me there... there may be a chance I slept with someone cause to be honest I don't really remember a lot from that night... I'm pregnant and my due date is March 30.. the said I got pregnant in July 3 to the 11.... I'm really really scared I love my boyfriend and I was in a bad place in my life at the time.... but I really need help is there any way if something did happen that day it be that father....
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7552771 tn?1469929649
If you don't know if you slept with someone then I wouldn't worry about it just forget it and move on and have a nice family with your bf. You shouldn't freak out if you don't knownif something happened. Now if your baby is born and doesn't look like your bf then you should worry and get a DNA test. But I've been black out drunk but always remember if I slept or did something with someone. Just stay can and enjoy your pregnancy.
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Im due april 16th and concieved mid july so im gonna say its 95% its ur boyfriends. Goodluck
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Sorry this is happening to you. Just tell your boyfriend what happened and that you don't remember. Don't keep it away from him that's even worse because your going to have stress and it's not good for you or the baby. Hope everything works out..
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My best advice to u is talk to ur boyfriend. Honesty is the best key in a relationship. Tell him how sorry u are and maybe nothing happened since u do not remember. I really hope everything works out for u but its better to talk to him before he finds out from somewhere else. Good luck and take care of urself and ur baby.
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I just feel so bad it eats at me like crazy cause I don't know if something happend or not... I don't think anything did... and my friends didn't say anything happened but we were all drunk... I don't think so cause I had a period at the end of June a full one and in July I only bleed three days... I just really hoping I'm right. I know this sounds really bad but I'm only 20..  and I was not thinking right and regret it ever single day...
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Im due march 28 and they said i conceived end of june so end of june or starting of july for you would be right...
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Yup, sounds like you conceived plenty after the party.
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I conceived on June 7th and I am due Feb 21st. It's very likely you conceived after the party.
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Yes it could be possible the other is the father but of u had also had sex with your boyfriend around then he also could be the father no judgment and no worries just keep it to your self until you know the dna answers that u want to know
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DNA not Dan lol
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Get a DAN test done when the baby is born and tell your boyfriend right away of what you did because you don't want to tell him the last minute..
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