I think I am going to just have her birthday party the beginning of December unless the 14th falls on a weekend and just tell people bring one or two gifts and give the rest of her gifts to her on Christmas.
My 6 yr old birthday is on Christmas and I was born on Thanksgiving
I had a friend whos daughter was born on Christmas and the year I stayed with her she didn't even give her a birthday. Said it was to much. I want my daughter to have a birthday but with my cousins and sister in law having kids I don't want everyone feeling they have to spend extra money when there is no need to.
I'm due December 15. And my birthday is 3 days after.. growing up that's how my family did it was just to buy a few things for my birthday and more during Christmas. But when my son is born I might as well forget my birthday lol it'll all be focused on him.