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9171754 tn?1412569817

starting to get annoyed -_-

My boyfriend keeps getting mad because I dnt wanna have sex since I became pregnant my sex drive went all the way down but he dnt understand that everything we do do it it hurts its uncomfortable an afterwards I have contractions but it seems like all he care abt is his self((!))
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Well I want love all the time not just sex. I try yo tell my hubby that but as soon as I try to get a little romantic he thinks I only wanna have sex. I try to tell him there r other things we can do besides sex and still have fun and hes always like what?  Only the thing is idk what... I dont know what else we could do that would satisfy us both like sex.
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How old is he lol bc he sounds very young for saying that he s not good enough..have u tried some romantic things like blindfold nd fruits, or touching show him that u do care and its not all about sex if he still with the BS then dont let it get to u..ur sex drive will come and go during this time
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Ever since I got pregnant I want to have sex all the time, I'm 18 weeks!
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9171754 tn?1412569817
Im try and see if that helps but I know the contractions dnt hurt her but they are painful for me :(
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9171754 tn?1412569817
I let him watch his porn but he's never happy
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9171754 tn?1412569817
I did but for some reason he thinks im lying an saying what he's not good enough anymore but its not that I just really don't be up to it anymore an aww thats to cute my sister be trying to get me to play with her like I use to an dnt understand yet either she's three as well
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^^ agreed. Theres other fun things besides sex. Try some. Mayb u will get more in the mood. Goodluck
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Try other sexual things instead of penetration. That way yal both have fun..and also ur gonna always have contractions when ur about to climax its natural and good for ur body..dnt worry ur not hurting bby
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7240013 tn?1405912110
it got uncomfortable to have sex at that time. i am 33 weeks and we dont have sex often. i feel bad but it is uncomfortable. i try to think postive as to not affect my baby. if i don't want sex i tell him to watch porn. i dont know how u feel about it though. he asks me if i want to have sex first if i say no he goes and watches it...  
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Tell him it is part of pregnancy and he has to deal! That is what I tell my fiance and he has kinda just accepted it. Now my 3 year old just doesn't understand Mommy can't be his horsy or run after the trash truck right now.
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9171754 tn?1412569817
That's what he tells me im no fun an it hurts my feelings im 21w2d
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7240013 tn?1405912110
my husband was understanding since it isnt the se that bothers me but i dont wabt him anywhere near my boobs and. nipples they hurt so bad. this morning I yelled at him gor touching me on the boobs and he got all cranky saying i am not fun anymore. it hurt but i know hr just doesnt understand the pain it causes me. so i know some what of ur situation.. how far along are you
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