pregnency care

[AJAY142]

my girlfrind has been pregnent before last 1 month but i not want the childbirth plz give me suggestion

[heatherlynn22]

i agree with the other ladies...this is NOT the forum to ask that sort of question. all of us here are either pregnant, have children or are desperately trying to have children. clicking on a pregnancy link wasn't so smart.

and as mumita said...if you don't want kids USE B/C. a box of condoms is cheaper then having a baby.

[eel81]

im sorry but i have been and so have many of these women trying to conceive for months or years and you come on here with that question. you should pay closer attention to where you post .

[Mumita]

I think its definitely your girlfriends choice in what she wants to do and if she wants to keep the kid and you don't want to stick around is up to you whether you are going to be another dead beat dad and you can join the pool of the many deadbeat dads out there.  Also, its not just your girlfriend's responsibility to use birth control to avoid getting pregnant, you could have easily used a condom or chosen not to have sex when you weren't protected, that goes both for pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.
Third if you don't want to leave your girlfriend and she wants to keep the kid then be a real man and not a coward and help raise this child and give it a chance in life.
Get an education, there's nothing we can tell you on this forum to make you feel better.  And even though I'm absolutely pro-choice, everyone here on this forum wants a baby and you have chosen the wrong forum to place this question...FYI if you come back.

[iwannabemommy]

I agree. If you did not want a child why weren't there better ways to be protected? It's rather to be safe than sorry. You both could be on something. You condoms and her birthcontrol.... Any pregnancy is a blessing. You take what you can get and be grateful.
I'm sorry your at such a confusing state, but if you need something to be done...... talk to a doctor....

Many are ttc as they have said... But, rethinking this might make you see babies are blessings. Though, they cause a life change, they are a lesson wrapped in diapers. There special little people who will show you the meaning for life. I believe if you wait it out and have the baby with her, you'll know the feeling I'm talking about.
I'm not even a mother yet, but I can't wait to feel it too!
Good Luck though.

[jesslee83]

oh wow.....tara is right, you're on a forum for mom's, pregnant women, and women who are trying desperately to concieve.....you need to click forums above, and see if there's 1 listed for what you are asking.....i'm sorry, but due to the nature of this forum, that is all i can tell you.....good luck with your situation.....

[tarajanes]

Hi there im sorry you feel that way.if she is only a month pregnant and feels the same,you both need to talk to a doctor.this may not be the best place to post your question,since most women here are trying to concieve.