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preparing for major shock @ delivery :(

So, I know I've posted a few times about this... as the time gets closer I'm TERRIFIED I'm in for a major shock I can barely sleep. I had sex with man A sept 1-4 & man B sept 14-20. Estimated lmp by 7 wk ultrasound dating scan is sept 5. I believe it was the 6. Due date june 11. What are the chances???? I'm scared!
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2072659 tn?1340597373
I would say man b because u usually ovulate 14-16 days after the first day of ur lmp.
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My lmp was sept 6, before that aug 5. Would sept 1-4 be too late in cycle to concieve??? And still go on to have period..... plus the dating scan at 7 wks is it positive man B??
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I'm due 11 of June...they reckon my est implementation was the 19 Sept. My last period was the 5th Sept.  . By my guess it could be either..
I'm guessing you want it to guy A. No way of knowing really. Try not to stress over it too much.
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Id say man b . I'm due July 10 my last period was Oct 4 and conceived the 19th Oct....I know its a month later but same numbers....good luck
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The last intercourse with man A was september 3 very late at night....or early morning september 4. I'm trying to be realistic with myself, everyone has said its definetly man B. If it was A, the 7 week dating scan would be 2 weeks off right?? Because at 7 wks it put my lmp at september 5, and I bled red blood I used pads until september 9/10. it was a period for me. is it even possible a 7 wk scan could be off by that much??
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Very confusing :(
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going by your dates above it would be Guy B. If your lmp was the 5th or even the 6th you would have ovulated on the 19th or 20th. The egg only has a 12 to 24 hour time frame to be fertilized. Sperm only lives a total of 3 to 4 days in the tubes. With that time frame there is no way Guy A would have any remaining swimmers in there. The early dating scans are almost always right on. The most they can be off is a day or two.  I wouldnt stress too much about it. Its not healthy for you or the baby.
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Man b makes more sence
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I'm due June 15 the and my conception date is September 24th. I would say man B
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I had a positive test sept 29, it was very faint but I retested a few days later and it was positive with a digital. if it was man A, his sperm couldn't survive the bleeding right? I know it was a period but sometimes I think what if it was implantation ughhh it just keeps circling possibilities in my mind
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1901977 tn?1333991726
Was your period really light? Implantation bleeding should only last a day or two, max.
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No the period was regular, I know the sex was unprotected I wondered but I got my period 2 days later. My cycles are regular would sept 1-4 be too late in my cycle to be fertile?? That, plus the period, plus my dating scan putting conception at sept 19.... how positive is it that its man B?
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It is very likely man b dear. Anything from man a would have been flushed out with your period because it was so close. I would say 95% man b is the father. It's just an educated guess. But statistically its man b.
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No one on here can tell you for sure. We are all just giving educated guesses, but its a GUESS. you need to relax, stop stressing, and focus on your little munchkin. Whats done is done and you will need a DNA test to be sure. Please dont rely on guesses or hopes, you need a scientific test to remove all doubt.
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1901977 tn?1333991726
Ultrasounds that early are pretty accurate, at most they're a week off but usually they're even more accurate than that. Your date of conception would have been around September 19th, so it matches up with guy B. Coupled with the fact that you had a regular period, seems like guy B. But if you really are worried, get a DNA test...since you've posted about this before, seems like you might need one to put your mind at rest.
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1989179 tn?1332441058
I am due May 26th and my conception date was on September 3rd, with yours being later, it makes most sense that it would be man B
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1989179 tn?1332441058
I am due May 26th and my conception date was on September 3rd, with yours being later, it makes most sense that it would be man B
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1989179 tn?1332441058
I am due May 26th and my conception date was on September 3rd, with yours being later, it makes most sense that it would be man B
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Its def man b cuz i had my lmp on march 6 n concieved on march 18 so two weeks after n my last pregnancy i had lmp on aug 22 n concieved sep 5 exactly two wks... So it has to b man b no chance of other man cuz sperm can last in u for up to three days only
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If it was you, what would you do honestly??? Would you be confident it was man b based on all the info?? The intercourse was seperated by 10 days and a period.
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My cycles are regular, every single month. my previous lmp was august 5th, would september 1-4 be too much past ovulation??
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Guy B. Get a calender and count 14 days from the first day of your last period. You got pregnant on one of those 14 days.
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You were fertile all days you were with guy B
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Guy A is my husband, but we were and are seperated. Guy b is a short term relationship. I'd rather have my ex because we already have a child but I don't want to be ridiculous.... seems the chance is pretty much nothing :/ being honest w myself, I just don't see the ultrasound at 7 wk being off by that much.
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