problems:/

[lilly_0427]

So I been with my boyfriend for 5 years and well he use to be super jealous like u ladies have no idea, when I had his baby and we started living together, he kinda calmed down a bit but was frustrating still having to deal with his jealously issues and my newborn baby...by the way, I never gave him any reasons to be physco jealous, I just realized his whole family is exactly the same! Well long story short, I started lying to him because I would just tell him what he wanted to hear (I know stupid idea!) Well I dont even know why I started to! It was so bad that I was up to the point where I was scared to even talk! Well he found out, we broke up for about 6 months, got back together and well he has changed and so have I...well im 9 weeks now expecting our second baby, & its still super frustrating because anything I tell him, he makes me "suare to my baby or god" that im telling him the truth, I mean I understand him in a way, but again I havent gave him any reasons to doubt me anymore, I dont go out, I work full time,  come straight home, cook, clean, and we'll im getting really tired of it...& I know he hasn't done anything because he does the same as me, works full time, comes straight home, and does house work...btw hes a great father...idk what to do im overwhelmed..any advice?

[tink627]

I agree with the responses above. Remember too that a good relationship is built not just on love but trust. If he doesn't trust you then what's the point in devoting so much of your life into a person like that. I would try being honest, have a talk with him and assure him that you only have eyes for him and are fully committed to your relationship. Maybe truth will come up and he'll reveal what's at the heart of his trust issues

[92mom2b]

Being pyscho jealous should be a red flag of how controlling he already is of your life. My boyfriend used to be beyond jealous to point he deleted all my contacts on my phone he woudlnt "Let" me go out, &inever did anything wrong ! it seems to be in his culture in a way to be the man controllig of your wife iguess. But icouldnt stand it anymore. His jealousy got the worst of him &ibroke up with him for 3months, we did get back together &he is okay now, evem when being pregnant he went psycho! Again &igave him an ultimadum, veing pyscho jealous is a sign of imaturity &control. Something as a women youdont need ! any man can frow to be a good father figure, but it takes a well minded man to be a husband as well.

[Baby012713]

He shouldn't make you swear on you're babies life that is extremely weird. You need to tell him you don't like the constant questioning and he needs to stop and go see someone to deal with his issues. Jealousy is something that needs to be treated its not healthy for anyone.

[Dlacey]

I feel the same way I love him so much and he is a good guy but it does need to stop I hope it gets better for both of our relationships

[lilly_0427]

Omg I thought I was the only one...idk what to do, its super frustrating, I want to be with him, hes a great guy/father but his jealous or insecure issues need to stop! I feel like hes suffocating me:(

[Dlacey]

I wish I had advice for you but I'm through the sameee EXACT thing I swear you just described my life at home. Swear to God or on the baby... very jealous or inscure omg as I'm typing this he just said "who u txtn" I always try to prove my honesty and loyalty but idk what else to do either