I'm in a mess. Pregnant and not sure who the father is.

[thistle81]

I found out last wk I'm pregnant. My first day of period was 8th of Feb. I had sex on the 20th and 24th (guy one) days 14 and 17 into cycle respectively, then on the 27th (guy two) 19/20 days into cycle. the last few months I've had a 29 day cycle.  Can't believe this has happened to me.

Been looking at forums all wk for answers and the more I read the more confused I am. Can you ovulate twice/ovulate late.

Once I get my first scan how accurate is the conception date? is it give or take 4 days? I'm stressing at the mo people. Can't sleep...

What advise would anyone give?

[thistle81]

Thanks ladies. Thats what I thought. As it was unplanned I've never known when I ovulate (measured temp etc) so will have to get paternity test once baby is born and try not to stress about what I'm goin to say to the men. My mum thinks I should wait til I have my 1st scan and am past the first trimetser before telling them.

[Melka76]

You can not really pinpoint conception - you could ovulate late/early or the sperm can live for 5 days - The only way to tell is a paternity test with intercourse with more than one man in the time frame give above.   good luck.

[nickieb85]

I would say since the dates are so close together you are going to have to have a paternity test when the baby is born to definitively tell who the father is. Usually early ultrasounds are extremely accurate. Be honest with both of the guys and then the only thing you can do is wait it out.