c section or natural birth?

[crisbabyeric]

Hello to all future mummies! I'd like to see your opinions on this. I'm 3 months and I don't know how to give birth eventually, if everything is alright, of course. :s Thanks in advance for your responses! :* Good luck to everyone

[crisbabyeric]

Anyway I think it finally depends on each woman. Some of us are lucky and give birth easily while other experience a little more pain. I just hope I will be in the first category :P

[mrsonens]

Omg @ladybeeley just watched business of being born and for me here in UK I think it's absolutely crazy! N din realise it was like that in US! Jus so unnecessary! I say natural all the way there is more to pain relief than an epidural!

[ChasingDreams33]

Lol

[crisbabyeric]

I am happy for you K! Your answer makes me stronger! ... Hulk atack! :)) kisses

[crisbabyeric]

Yes Chase! Thank God we do have everything we need and I am willing to pay whatever costs to be ok ... both me and baby... I fully agree with you!

[crisbabyeric]

Hei Lady! I do not know if I am ready for that yet. I just want to give birth without to much pain ... I do not handle it too well ... but at the same time I want...as we all do... my baby to be healthy. Thank you all for answers! They really help me a lot :*

[ChasingDreams33]

I'm from nj i couldn't even tell u how many c sections are preformed everyday and usually all the babies born that way are healthy and fine but doctors really recommend natural i'm doing natural but i'm getting that epidural to numb me from the waist down so i won't feel any pain do you have epidurals there?

[kennimae]

I would choose natural if I had a choice because I wouldnt want to be opened unless necessary. If it was completely necessary I would have a c section and not care because its whats best.

I had a natural with my first with pain meds and loved it.  I only needed 2 or 3 stitches so it wasnt too horrible.

[crisbabyeric]

Thanks a lot for your answer Chase! Your are very much right! :* good luck to you too and your baby! It's my first too...and hopefully...my last :P

[LadyBeeley]

Natural for me all the way! If you want to do some of your own research I reeally recommend watching "the business of being born". The visuals they show of the pain that can be caused to baby and the suffocation they can go through just so we get a little comfort will definitely shock you.

[crisbabyeric]

Thanks K. How about you? What did/do you choose? I live in Romania and here, if I am too scared, I can choose a c section. But, speaking in terms of the baby's health and mine... I don't know what to choose

[ChasingDreams33]

Not sure what your asking if it's you choosing c section over natural that makes no sence to me personally why would you wanna go under major surgery if you don't have to there's risks in nature and c section but even my doctor told me cause i thought about it at one point he wouldn't give a women a c section because she wants one your bodys are made for this and there's classes to take if you don't know how to give birth but to be honest when the time comes it's just a natural thing to start pushing sure it's always besy thou to learn different techniques to help and this is my first i'm very nervous but i'm sure everything will be fine i'm due this friday but i'd choose natural unless you have a lagit medical reason not too is this your first. And either way regardless it is your body your choice ya know do what you think and feel is best for you i'm sure whatever you choose everything will be just fine :-) congratulations btw

[kennimae]

Unless medically necessary most doctors make you try vaginal before c section and you cant choose.

[crisbabyeric]

Sorry! I meant "mommies"