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my baby's father hates me
He is online everytime I'm at work talking to women and sending photos back and forth with them and lying to me constantly. He's recently registered on several dating sites. I practically beg him for sex and he shows no interest but pays all these strange women on the internet endless amounts of attention. I looked at his phone today and he had several photos of some woman. He has one picture of me on his phone and it's one of me and my son and several of this other woman. I found her email address and emailed her and he told her we were divorced. He doesn't work and just makes a full time job out of talking to women on the internet and lying to me. He makes me feel disgusting and awful about myself. I hate this. Everyday I wish I weren't pregnant with his baby.
Do yourself a favour and get rid of him...if he makes you feel like this surely thats the sign its time to leave...if you stay with him and things dont change then your upsetting yourself and thats upsetting your baby im sure your worth 10x better than what hes treating you...x
Do yourself a favour and get rid of him...if he makes you feel like this surely thats the sign its time to leave...if you stay with him and things dont change then your upsetting yourself and thats upsetting your baby im sure your worth 10x better than what hes treating you...x
My ex-husbsnd had an addiction to sex, with me, with others, porn, pretty much anything involving sex. I was with him since I was 14, he was my first & we were together 10 years and had two kids. I left him after.he cheated (for the third time). It is hard & I know the rejection u feel. It took me four years to find my right guy but we are happy, he loves my kids & we r expecting our first baby. He makes me feel sexy. You can do it alone, and with family support. Don't let Jim have that power over u!
P.S.I love my kids, I see a lot if myself in them as well as their dad. But I wouldn't change a thing about them!
P.S.I love my kids, I see a lot if myself in them as well as their dad. But I wouldn't change a thing about them!
when u see your baby none of thoes feeling will come over u all u will feel is LOVE u made that baby u carried her amything he has done wont affect the way u love her trust me
I agree with factorymomma, he has a problem. Her is addicted to what he's doing. It's similar to a drug/alcohol addiction and that is not your responsibility to overcome. It's his. You are beautiful! No man who looks at that stuff knows what true beauty is. True beauty is on everything you are. You are a mother, a hard worker, and a very compassionate person, and I only know you from the internet! How much grater you must be in person! Leave him it start with him is your choice, but if you stay with him I strongly encourage you seek counseling together. My parents had something happen that is similar but not exactly what's going on here. After 6 kids and over 20 years of marriage it came out that my father had a pornography addiction. He had overcome out for years but we had introduced internet as a main part of our home which opened the door for it to come back in. he truly loves my mom, but the addiction made it hard for him to express it. My father who takes pride in gifts to my mother was buying last minute presents, and she and we could tell. He was preoccupied. My mom about left him. but we encouraged them to seek counseling before they separated... In this case it was good and they are still together. Do what is best for you and your 2 children!
You can do better for yourself, hun!! =) and once you see your baby, you'll thank him for at least one thing good!! Head up girl and be strong!!
Pregnant or not you need to kick him to the curb. He brings nothing to the relationship except grief.
I agree with Factorymomma 100%.....I am I guy and your man sould like he's not done plating around. Trust me If you drop him you'll find better in the long run and its better to have plan because you miss him then if you find out his been cheatin on you.....
Oh and just to let you know, your baby's dad does not hate you. HE HAS A PROBLEM. I think if a man hated his baby's mother he wouldn't go sneaking around. He would either talk to you, or just leave for a breather. I know that sounds bad but I think yore man is just taking advantage of a very delicate situation.
Sounds exactly like my ex husband!!! Except he got addicted to drugs and alcohol.... Drop him, run. Don't look back. It'll be hard, trust me I struggled with my decision for months. We had a child may 2009, I only stayed with him because of my son. I left him in june 2010. I wanted to leave him so badly right after I had my son but I felt horrible about thinking it. I am SO much happier now!!! I met a man sept 2010 (at a friends urging) and have never been happier. He treats me like gold, and my son like his own. We're expecting now (obviously) his first child :-) as for looking at your child and just seeing your ex, it's going to happen. I'm not going to lie. BUT!! That ick/sad feeling goes away so quickly when your baby does something just funny or awesome... I never knew farting could be so darned cute lol. Just hang in there. Make a plan of escape if you're leaving, or make a plan to kick him out. Involve your family. It's hard to do (trust me!). But it's easier to get your point across with angry family members backing you up, than doing it alone. Plus you have some back up just in case something goes a bit awry.....
Stand up and throw his *** out on the street.....maybe he needs a reality check if not hit his *** with child support....that should wake his dumb *** up..
Don't think of her as "his" she's only "his" if he actually takes care of her and would be a good father. But as of now he seems like a total piece of crap. I'm sorry bit that is rediculous I've been through the internet stuff with my bf but it was the beginning of our relationship and he changed, but only because he wanted to.. and I know it feels awful and you feel like the piece of **** because of it. But honey you are not, just remember YOU are the one with the job YOU are the one with the income and YOU are the one who can support that baby unlike himself who only cares about himself. I would take maybe two days to a week to see of he Truely wants to change and if not, please leave. And see of THAT can open his eyes orrr it will just show you how much of a piece of **** he Truely is. Good luck dear. Don't let him bring you down!
Keep in mind that, if your daughter has to witness his disrespect for you, she may grow to accept the same in her relationships. She'll be much better off with two happy, separate parents than two miserable ones together. Also, don't keep letting him waste your time. It's unfair to you when you very well could be with someone who truly loves you. Regardless, though, leaving someone you're invested so much time in isn't easy. I hope things get easier for you.
When she arrives she'll knock you over with the love you'll have for her. she's yours too :-)
My dad did that to my mum.. She left his sorry *** and she is so much happier.. We all are and you would be too.. You deserve someone who will respect you and treat you like a princess!
Honey you are better than that you need to leave him. No woman deserves to be treated like that... Im so sorry you are going through this. I would deffinately be done with him if I were you. he is the disgusting one not you.
Your baby will be the one good thing this man gives you....I wish you all the luck and hope you have the strength to leave him... no man should man a woman feel like you do...you deserve better
Sorry this is not a question just need support and this is the only place I can get any
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