very stressed out jusy need to vent.!

[laceyamber1996]

Father of my baby is 23 I just turned 18 two months ago I'm 5 months pregnant. We got together in July of 2014 things moved kinda fast we met threw my cousin her and his brother used to go out so thats how we met. But anyways he doesn't seem to want to stay home with me (we moved in together 1 month after dating my grand parents kicked me out) especially on pay day he goes out buys a **** load of beer for the next couple of days till his moneys all gone. He stayed out from 4 pm till 7am the next day drinking with his buddys what should I do I'm so beyond lost right now.!

[baby2due9715]

I agree with shelbalou and chefblu. You have enough to worry about with making sure you stay healthy for the baby. You do not need a guy around that only causes extra stress and headache on you.  You deserve a man who can step up and be a role model for your child.  If he isn't willing to

[ChefBlu]

My fiance' goes to work and class and comes home. If he goes to his best friend's house he either asks me or tells me before hand. He has never stayed out past 11 when with his friend. He was only drunk one time and he called me and I went and picked him up. He apologized a thousand times that night and I told him it was okay and I'm glad he didn't drive but he could tell I was a little upset so he's never done that again. He'll have a beer or two then come home. My point in telling you all of this is because when I made the decision to keep my baby and put my baby first I told my fiance that he could stay if he wanted but I refuse to be with someone who will act like a child and not be a good role model and father to my son. I even broke up with him once to show him that I didn't need him. Ever since he has stepped up and has never disappointed me. I love him to death and I'm proud of how fast he "grew up". Have a serious talk with your partner and tell him what you want!

[laceyamber1996]

When he can tell I'm angry he acts like I'm the one in the wrong and turns the whole thing around on me so I look like the bad guy but I feel a lil better its more common then I thought thanks guys :)

[realnewfiegirl]

Im goin through the same thing . Im 20 and mt bf is 22. And i feel he doesnt care about the baby or me . I want to leave him cuz im.so stressed but i love him :( its really hard . I really hope u dont go through what im.goin though. I think all guys are like this. Its like they get nervous . And want to have there free time not before the baby just my thiughts lol i hope thats what it is anyway . Good luck

[shelbalou]

I would sit down and have a serious conversation because things might change for a while but they will go back to how they have been. He needs to realize you have a baby on the way and he can't be spending his money on alcohol and being gone at all hours of the night because your baby needs his father there to help and if he doesn't change I would honestly consider leaving him. He doesn't seem like he is mature enough to handle the responsibility of being a father and he just wants to get drunk and party instead. Maybe talking with him will be enough to knock some sense into him.

[Cindy0624]

Same thing with my baby father whose 22.he'll do exactly the same thing n den when he notices im angry with him about it or when he finally deciedes to act like he cares,he'll apologize n den do it again. Im so confused i dont undastand wats wrong with these guys. I try not to stress tho cuz for sure when the baby get here, they r goin to be crazy in love n hopefully change.