relationship advice needed for a 6 week pregnant mama

[sammy1990]

Hi everyone. As some of you might have seen I'm 6 weeks pregnant. Now I don't know kg the father is my son's father or my boyfriend's. I never cheated. Anyways, ever since I told my son's father he is being super supportive and says he'll be by my side even if the child isn't his. He spends time with me and makes me feel special. Mind you there Are reasons we broke up, but it seems he's changed for the better. Now my boyfriend spends barely any time with me. Is always busy playing video games in his spare time and says he doesn't know What will happen if baby is or isn't his. He doesn't understand I'm emotional and cry bc of this. His response is leave me then bc I don't want you crying over me. Now am I crazy or should I get back with my ex (son's father) who has changed so much and wants to be there for me. Or should I be single? Idk I'm one confused mama.

[LalaLenny]

Fathers can be a good fathers without being in relationship with the mother. You pick how u want to be and let ur son's dad and ur new baby dad to be involve in kids life. U can be single if that's what u want and feel the best with but don't get in relationship with anyone just for the sake of children coz it won't work long term. Maybe it sounds selfish but think about urself and what relationship do u want and what will make u happy. Coz when u happy ur children will be happy too but if u r not happy kids will pick up on that.

[babyonboard24]

Single..if your sons father has really changed an wants to be with you that wont change just because you dont get together right now an the boyfriend sounds like he might be waiting on you to end it,if he wanted to be with you he wouldnt say things like you should leave because i dont want you crying over me,he would say what can i do to make things better.good luckers!

[RikaReek]

Mayb you shld b single until afta ur bby & see do ur son father really mean evrythng he is sayn......& ur bf is prolly jus hurt nd dnt knw hw to xpress his self to you

[rosey117]

The grass always looks greener on the otherside concentrate on bringing a healthy baby in the world.