i want another baby

[flossie600]

I want to have another baby by my fience and I want my tubes reversed how much and what is the procedure.

[GreenEyedMama]

OOPS I MADE IT SOUND LIKE HE ALREADY HAD ONE I MENT THATS WHAT WE DECIDED ON.WHEN I TOLD MY DOCTOR I MIGGHT GET MY TUBES TIED AS WELL
HE MADE IT SEEM LIKE I WAS GOING TO BE CHEATING ON MY HUBBY (HE ACTUALLY ASKED).I JUST WANT TO BE SAFE I DONT THINK MY BODY IS ABLE TO DO THIS AGAIN WITH ALL THE PROBLEMS IVE HAD.

[GreenEyedMama]

thaNK YOU!wELL HES GOES TOMMOROW MORNING TO DO IT.

[JoyRenee]

Yes, you're definitely correct about vasectomies! A tubal ligation can be reversed but you're right: it can be more difficult to become pregnant, or it might not work. It's safer for the man to get a vasectomy, too, but make sure he gets checked out to see if it's working because we've had lots of women come through this forum who've gotten pregnant after a vasectomy and they say, "Oh... well... he never went to his followup to see if it worked." Sorry, I know you didn't ask for my input, but thought I'd warn you if you didn't already know!

Congrats on baby #3!!!

[GreenEyedMama]

I signed the papers to do it cuase im going on # 3, so they had to have the whole talk with me about it.In the end i just had my hubby get a vasectomy becuase its is reversible more than if i did it but it still cost thousands.

[JoyRenee]

GreenEyedMama, did you have your tubes tied?! You're very young!

[GreenEyedMama]

Insurance doesnt cover it,and it costs thousands so my doctors have told me.Half the time they cant.

[JoyRenee]

Not sure about that, sweetie. Best bet is to find a doctor in your area who does those types of procedures and can quote you a price. Your insurance MAY cover it, so it would be good to call and ask them if your plan covers it. It is possible, so don't give up looking for your answers!