rude people

[haisaramander]

My friend and her mom have always had bad manners for some reason but its really starting to **** me off especially today. I was at her house watching a movie and her sister in law who is 6 months comes over and wants to see my bump cuz im only 15wks. Im actually a little bigger then her (bump wise. She weighs a good 30lb more tjan me) and my friends mom tell me im gna look like a house and starts makin fun of me. And this isnt tje does anybody else have to deal with rude people and you have any suggestions on how to talk back to them first time shes poked at my weight and the thing that pisses me off the most is that her family is morbidly obese they are almost 300 pounds and before pregnancy I was around 130. Ive only gained 4 pounds but it looks like a lot more. Any one else have to deal with ****** people?

[munchkin2013]

Y dont u just stop talking to them if theyr rude to u.. its not like theyr ur family.. u can find 1000 of good friends lol

[happy_glow]

I know exactly what your taking about.. I have this issue with my bds family .. They are also bigger people, I weighted 126 post pregnancy. I'm 154 now. (i'm 32+4, 20yrs old) most of it is just stomach, but they always point out that I have a double chin, or fat this or fat that.. And his little sister, she's 13, points at my tummy n laughs every time I struggle sitting, standing, walling, or with anything... It's annoying.. But says more about them than it does about you.. Hope all turns out well!

[Jaleaah]

Don't worry about rude people. Some people just don't know how to deal with other people being pregnant, (or we are just extremley sensitive!) But you're still on a dangerous stage at pregnancy. Don't get stressed. Because your little baby is be able to feel your frustration and might not feel welcomed in the home you are to it. And we sure don't want that!
try to avoid stress as much as possible!
Because usually we start hating certain people during pregnancy. And as soon as the baby is born, it knows that person is not safe and cries, and that's not okay with family.

And don't worry about gaining weight!
Be proud of your belly!
Not many women get to have it! :)

[mariee20]

This guy that me and my boy friend work with is so rude. We haven't told anyone we work with that we are together or that he is the father of my child cause people that I work with like to break people up if they see they are happy but this guy told my bf that when I'm more pregnant I'm gonna be huge and no one is going to want me. Its like I don't care of anyone will want me because I'm with my boyfriend and he's the only one that matters to me