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10206952 tn?1408930334

sad :(

I just wanna take my son n leave sometimes I'm 10 weeks pregnant and my husband when we argue  he say really mean things n  then if I talk I'm still in the wrong no matter what I say or do idk
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Look up what abusive relationship looks like. You don't deserve it. No one does. Verbal abuse is just as damaging. Him saying sorry doesn't mean a thing if he does it again. Words are empty unless there are actions to back them up. My boyfriend was being verbally abusive so I left and stayed with my dad for the night and he got the hint. Show him you won't stand for it. It's not allowed. You need to show yourself and your growing baby that you are strong and that you value yourself enough to stay away from a guy who is unwilling to treat you properly. If my boyfriend does what he did ever again... He knows we won't be together and there isn't a thing he could do to stop me. It took me a long time to learn I deserved that kind of love from myself. Put you and your baby ahead of him. Clearly he's putting himself above all else. Not a safe place for a baby or you.
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10206952 tn?1408930334
Thanks he just always saying things n putting words in my mouth.  N always say sorry n end up doing it again
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Honey... You need to get out there. Don't allow yourself to be verbally abused. Assert yourself and let him know you won't stick around to be spoken to like that... If you are afraid of being physically hurt. When he's not in the house pack a bag and go somewhere safe. If he is smart he will listen to your words do whatever he needs to keep you in his life and treat you the way you deserve.
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