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3062924 tn?1350414109

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So I found out Friday that I am having a girl. My mom is coming around to the thought of me being pregnant. Especially because its a girl. I just found out that my bf is not excited about the pregnancy anymore because its not gonna be the little boy we thought we were having. I also know my side of the family won't b happy once I tell them its a girl because we have too many girls in the family. I feel like this little girl won't get as much love from everyone ad I orginally thought. I feel crappy....
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3062924 tn?1350414109
Thank u ladies
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3094227 tn?1340939908
IF THEY DON'T LIKE OR IS NOT HAPPY ABOUT U HAVING A BABY IN GENERAL GET FROM AROUND THAT NEGATIVITY A HEALTHY BABY IS ALL U NEED TOWORRY ABOUT ..AND WAT THEY SHOULD BE HAPPY ABOUT.MY BF WANTS A OY CAUSE HE HAS 3 girls and I've always WANTED A GIRL BUT I WANT TO GIVE HIM HIS FIRST BOY BUT MY MOM WANTS A GIRL..I REALLY DON'T CARE AS LONG AS MY BABY IS HEALTHY AND FINE..GOODLUCK
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Every baby is a blessing. They will all come around... Don't let anyone take away the happiness of a healthy baby. I wish you the best
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756023 tn?1338520435
Gender does not matter.  A happy, healthy baby is most important.  
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1688492 tn?1346364370
If that was my bf I'd b going off he needs to b happy n realize he is blessed that u n him can even have kids!!!!! No Matter the gender there r so many women on this site that can't have kids or get pregnant n have miscarriages like myself, he needs to b thankful menu shuld tell him that
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Your boyfriend and fmaily will just have to get over it. No matter what gender your baby is the important thing is that it is healthy. I had a little boy a few years ago and no one was initally happy about my pregnancy except my boyfriend. We had quite a few problems with his family over it, but eventually people figured out there was nothing they could do. My baby was admitted to the hospital just days after we can home so be happy about your baby and hope that she is healthy. And if these people care for you they will eventually realize this baby is amazing no matter the gender. Hope you have a happy healthy baby girl.
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Ur baby is a blessing remember that:) everyone will love her on r they see her if not don't let negativity around ur lil angel
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