scared:'( miscarriage??

[mommy_2_be_again90]

17+1..So i have woke up all night cramping pretty bad but only on my left side... finally want to sleep and over again while up covered in dark(almost brown) blood.. still no clots... at 14 weeks i was diagnosed with placenta pervia & fluid build up in my uterus and cervix..at er... don't have Dr yet... so scared um going to have a miscarriage:'( :'(

[Drizzyworld]

You are in my prayers.. Try your hardest not to stress to much ❤

[Nini30]

in this case I have to agree we cannot answer if she is having a miscarriage or not but we are here to support each other not to be rude and judge. I think there are nicer way to say things if you really need to say it. Sorry this is happening to you. I would go to the ER just to make sure. Good luck to you and I hope everything is ok with you and your baby. Keep us posted

[mommy_2_be_again90]

Yea i no losing a bby hurts.. i lost my lil boy at 16 weeks back in December..  and Cylsta like i said u dont no my frikkin situation so dont sit there n judge me.. thank u and have a great day:)

[Clysta]

And we can not answer that for you. You need a doctor, and none of us are one. But if you're really wanting advise for now - no I doubt you're having a miscarriage. The blood is likely from your previa, which is well known at causing it. Sex and frequent activity are also known at causing a brown discharge and is from old blood left in your body that is loosened.

You can hate my advice, I honestly don't care. No one wants to be told they're irresponsible, but at 21 years old with 2 children and pregnant with a third with lack of parental care KNOWING you have complications? It's irresponsible, there's no way around it.

[naryashadow]

Have you gone to the hospital yet to see if everything is alright? I hope it is, losing a baby is very hard on a person. I know you are looking for advice on here, but its much better to go to a professional than asking people on a forum in instances such as these as we really couldn't tell you anything when it comes to what your body is doing.

[mommy_2_be_again90]

First of all thank most if you for the advice... i am not irresponsible nor immature.. i have a very very stressful situation that many cannot relate to.. im doing everything in my power at this point to get all my information so i can get prenatal care.. this is my 3rd high risk pregnancy so i no how vital it is.. .. all i was doing was asking with my diagnosis and the symptoms im currently having if it was a sign of miscarriage or if anyone had experienced the same.. i wasnt asking to be lectured on how 'irresponsible' i am ..

[Clysta]

Well your state also plays a factor, as does the people doing it. I didn't have any of my information (because like an idiot I left it at home) and before anything could be processed I was required to fax it in. So while some don't, others do and it's not something you should count on happening. You need to be more responsible and get your stuff straightened out. I know I sound harsh, but honestly it sounds like you need it. Does your partner have insurance through his job? Can he add you?

[Zombonnie]

You do need proof of a viable pregnancy so Google free pregnancy tests in your area.. they will be able to test u and validate your pregnancy and tell u where to go to get the official paperwork Im on Medicaid and did all of it with out documentation

[Zombonnie]

Go to your local department of workforce services they have.computers u can use to fill out info for Medicaid u do an over the phone interview as long.as u kno your social security number that's all u need.I didn't need a birth cert I left mine in my home state with family and I didn't have to FAX my SS card cuz they can check to see if the number is legit I had Medicaid that day I had a card in the mail 7 days later u should go get one

[summero87]

Emergency rooms cannot deny u emergency care nor can they ask for payment ...find your closest one an go ..

[rachyrou]

You need to sort things out for the sake of your baby x

[babybumpthree]

You really need to start to get your things together and try to get insurance so you can find a doctor to take care of you your high risk so you need a regular doctor if someone stole your thing then report it to the police and ask them to give you a letter air you to take and get your id

[brenconmom]

Baby.

[brenconmom]

Hun Im not trying to be rude so i apologize if i come across that way. You need to pull it together and start taking care of yourself for the sake of your baby. You said you are high risk so that is even more reason to be getting prenatal care. Im not sure where you are from but here in Mass no woman who is pregnant or child can be denied Medicaid. You need to get your legal documents in order and do what you need to for you and your children. With that said i wish you the best of luck and Congrats on your nay.

[mommy_2_be_again90]

Ok..

[Clysta]

I agree - any and all of this stuff you NEED to have, not just for pregnancy but for work, bank accounts, driving and just living. Half this you can get for absolutely nothing. Pregnancy isn't just something to play around with, prenatal care is VITAL. I mean, not seeing a doctor AND being high risk, not having vital documents.... It's extremely irresponsible and something you need to change and change quickly.

[naryashadow]

How do you not have any of that stuff at your age?

[mommy_2_be_again90]

I have no form of id.. birth certificate, social security card, etc

[mommyofaria]

Yeah I agree with the other ladies....you really need to see about getting medicade and seeing a doctor Exp since your high risk...all we can do is offer advice........best of luck to you.

[TxMamma]

Yea Medicaid can't deny you.

[agrell]

Could you possible get Medicaid???

[mommy_2_be_again90]

I don't have insurance and because I'm considered high risk free clinics won't see me...

[dingus55]

You do need to find an ob to make sure. Placenta pervia isn't that uncommon. I had it with my last and again with this one.  I spotted a lot with this one. If the blood becomes bright pink/ red def gi to the er. It usually disapates on its own during second trimester due to baby growing and lifting tour placenta up.  Being that your 17 plus weeks this should have gone away UNLESS you have been having sex make sure their is NO stimulation of any kind that may make your uterus contract.  You need to make an apt Si the Dr can check to make sure its not something more serious

[mommy_2_be_again90]

**once again woke up